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writes:i love performing oral sex on men. it makes me extra hot and ready. does this run guys off? like do they look to me as a whore for doing it?
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reader, mr41 +, writes (15 March 2009):
 no.........i love oral sex and i could never get too much and i find that true for many guys
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (13 March 2009):
There is a saying that all men want "a lady in the street and a whore in the bedroom."
It's a bit victorian, but it still holds true.
If you go round telling everyone that you love giving head and flaunting it then yes, it'll look bad. If you tell a guy you like about it then yes it will look bad.
If you just let a guy discover for himself as part of a loving relationship then he'll marry you.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2009): Nothing bad about liking it, as long as your men feel like you're reasonably choosy about who you do it with. Just like any other kind of sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2009): No way does that make you look like a whore. Personally I love doing it, cant get enough. And I have never gotten an argument out of a guy for wanting to do it lol. Just make sure that you are getting repaid for all your effort!
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (13 March 2009):
 In my opinion, you just need to find a guy who also enjoys giving you equivalent pleasure. That is what I have done all my life. In other words, since a younger man, I have deeply loved women who gave me such pleasures.
And I quickly discovered that, by doing all that I could to ensure that my woman was always totally satisfied FIRST, then I was pretty much certain to receive fellatio (many great blow jobs). Good intercourse should also be involved throughout a lovemaking session, in my opinion. You can read my postings on cunnilingus and much more by entering almost any sexual topic in the search field above. Just find a man who first shows great interest in pleasing you first (and let him), then give him his just rewards. Personally, I'm always looking for a great woman like you who apparently appreciates healthy sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2009): As with everything, presentation matters. If you tell him in the right way at the right time, he'll be yours for as long as you want him. Now if a girl I'd just met told me that, it might be a different matter -- it could come across as sleezy.
It's reassuring to know there are girls like you out there. ;)
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reader, Tewebag +, writes (13 March 2009):
no. my current girl friend also loves giving oral before sex. she says it turns her on and makes her wet. sometimes she will do it for five or ten minutes before sex but never to the point of me cumming in her mouth (one year of being sexual active and i havnt done it in her mouth once). she stops before i do that and we have regular sex which i enjoy. not all guys like oral though. we are all different.
i dont find my girlfriend a whore at all for wanting to give me oral. i enjoy giving her oral does that make me a whore also?
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reader, Psyence +, writes (13 March 2009):
 i'm exactly the same - i love giving oral sex. the problem i find is that if you tell guys you like it they expect it ALL the time, sometimes in place of sex - leaving you unfulfilled! some guys think that because you like it, it'll actually make you orgasm, at least in my experience. but no, guys love it! they won't see you as a whore unless they're prudish!
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