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Should I visit her or not?

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Question - (13 March 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 14 March 2009)
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

This girl just brokeup with my bestfriend now she is calling me frequently that i should visìt her and to buy something for her while coming. I tryd to avoid her but she kept persuading me to come and she îs stayin alone. I have told my bestfriend about it, but he seems not borthered, he just told me to use her and dump her. But am stil considering whether to visit her or not. So please what should i do. Advise me.

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A female reader, Olivia(Y). United Kingdom +, writes (14 March 2009):

Olivia(Y). agony auntDo you want to be with this girl or not?

If you do then go visit her but if you don't stay clear of her because visiting her would give her the wrong impression, she obviously still likes you and wants to get back with you or she would leave you alone.

Don't worry about what your friends say, do what you want to do. Its your life after all and you should make your own choices.

If you don't want to be with her tell her straight that you need time to yourself and your not going to see her.

Good luck

Olivia

xxx

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