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writes:I'm a guy. And there is this guy that gives me some signals. I would like to know if he is in to me. If he is gay or smthing.Well, he hugs me and when i am trying to sleep he comes near me and tells me to kiss his cheek for goodnight. but the thing is he has a girlfriend. So I'm confused. I really am... What do you think ?Is he gay?Thanks(P.S we are roomates for a year and a half. We sleep in separate beds :P)
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2009): I think he is gay.He is trying to let u know.Ask him out if he is so? there is nothing wrong..
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2009):
Think about this, a STRAIGHT GUY never asked a STRAIGHT GUY to kissed a GUY.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2009): You could just ask him. In a non-confrontational way, I would suggest.
Seriously though he could be gay, bisexual, curious, straight+friendly when sleepy, straight+yousexual, gay+the girlfriend, any number of variations.
If he's kissing you goodnight though, he's unlikely to break your nose for wondering why.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2009): Ok you helped me a little.Second oppinion is always handy. Thanks again and i will post again for any other thing i wanna know
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reader, yum yum  +, writes (13 March 2009):
 I dont know if he is gay but However I am practically sure he is into you. He might have his girl friend for a cover up. many gay people have a girl friend as a cover up. If you like him then make a move. good luck!!
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reader, 1perrito  +, writes (13 March 2009):
 Don't worry.A lot of men (myself included) get freaked out about men being over-affectionate. In my line of work, I spend many days and months and years with other men.There is nothing wrong with making solid men friends. He is just giving you the Brotherly love that was normal back before the big social stigma against gays that is currently prevalent in our society.It's Ok to make friends like this. He most likely considers you more of a Brother, than anything else.If he gets weird on you just say, "I love you man, just not that way".
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reader, gemma8551  +, writes (13 March 2009):
To be honest this guy probably is curious sexually which is why he is perhaps flirting with you a little. However, he has a girlfriend so he is obviously committed to her at the moment. He is probably very confused at the moment so stay away. Just ask yourself how you would feel in his girlfriends position? Just leave well alone honey x
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2009): Realistically, there's no way of knowing.Some homosexual people remain closeted indefinitely, for personal and professional reasons.I think the guy is being friendly, and nothing more.Hope this helps.
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