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Gay?Or just trying to be a loyal friend?

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Question - (13 March 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 14 March 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hey guys ....

well anyways/...im a 14 year old striaght guy and i have alot of close guy friends...

but this one guy J.D is getting reallly too close to me...he's always tryin to make me laugh and allways touchy feely like a pat on the back or a handshake all the time....and we're always foolin around like normal guys do...but i do question his sexuality....i mean i have nothing against gays....i dont care, he's still gonna be the same J.D to me even if he was gay

well my question is...do you think he's gay or is just trying to be a good loyal friend and build up a good male bond????

what do you think???

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A female reader, Mrs. Mom United States +, writes (14 March 2009):

Mrs. Mom agony auntI can't really tell. I doubt I could tell even if I met J.D.! Some people are just more "touchy" than others. Look at his family. Do they touch each other a lot? That could explain it.

If he tells you he's gay, do you know what you'll say? Or if he asks you out on a date? It might be good to have some words prepared, just in case.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2009):

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well i know that but he someetimes acts too overly excited and does alot of eyecontact with me ...it seems like our eyes always meet..it's really wierd

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A male reader, Islander United States +, writes (13 March 2009):

Islander agony auntbeing friendly to you is mostly the answer. guys pats the back of there friends and handshakes are really normal. be and my friends do it all the time. well to us we take it as a sign of saying hi. i don't know about you on how you take it. its either take it one way or the other it is fairly yours to decide.

have a nice day

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