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writes: I need help me and my gf are both 15 and we've been going out for 8 months, we love eachother (not sexually active yet)... but im a little concerned, let me tell you the background of the story: she went to a latenight party last night with about 20 kids including her and my close fried chad.....it ended at 4 in the morning and most of the kids were drinking...i couldn't make it because some thing came up well the nextday (today) chad tells me he lost his v-card last night(reluctantly) and he wont tell me who...we teell eachother eevery thing but he loooked like he's hidding some thing later on through the day i was cuddling with my girl and she was moaning and groaning...i asked her wat was wrong and she said her vigina hurts... im no doctor but i checked it out..i didnt see anything , it was just a little swollen and red so i asked her if she's been fingering herself lately and she says no suspiciously...the whole day she's been acting wierd too like chad now i don tknow what happend at tha t party but im staring to put the cluse together..i think my buddy chad had sex with my girlfriend..there were only 3 guys there and the other 2 guys my gilrfriend barely knows them....also i know chad has quite a big penis and that could be the reason for her vigina beying swollen and red.(hers cant take that much).. so please help me im freacking out1!!!! i dont know what to do!!!+why would THey do this to me??? they're the 2 people i care most about...?.!! do you think i should confront them about it???? Do you think they really hooked up????? please i need your advise!! what do you think????? sorry for the long post thanks
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reader, mr_e38 +, writes (25 April 2009):
Hay man I read you’re story and just to let you know if I can think that something did happened with you’re “friend” and “girlfriend” then yes something mite have happened, just go up to each of them an ask but be cool about it, you know what man you’re going to have a lot of things happen to you in you’re life that you are not going to like. How ever don’t just let this happen just ask them what happened with them but be cool about it.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (14 March 2009):
 Hey darling,
Well, it does add up, I'll give you that. It could also be something completely coincidental and innocent. But, my ears definitely prick up and yes, the whole thing sounds suspicious to me.
I think I would ask your buddy first. Guys are a lot easier to make up with and you'll probably be able to get more of the truth out of him, if he's a real friend. Your girlfriend I would approach after you talk to your friend. You don't want to accuse her of cheating prematurely!
I do think you have reason to be suspicious... and as Olivia says, stay calm and together. They'll be much more liable to be honest if you keep your cool.
Good luck, my darling!
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reader, Olivia(Y).  +, writes (13 March 2009):
 I would go to your friend chad and ask him did he sleep with your girlfriend. Explain to him that you won't be angry with him you just want to know the truth. If they did sleep together don't have a go at both of them because that makes things alot worse. Stay calm and ask exactly what happened. People do stupid stuff when they have had one to many to drink. Talk to your girlfriend about what happened and explain that you love her and just want the truth.Good luckOliviax
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