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How can you let a guy down easy?

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Question - (13 March 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 13 March 2009)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

How do you let a guy down easy? I like him as a friend only and he wants more. How can I let him know I just want to be friends? and if I tell him that a friendship is all I want will he stop being my friend? I really don't want to loose our friendship. How can I still keep him as a friend and not hurt his feelings? Thankx for any input anyone can give.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2009):

I don't know why guys are so pressed to give ultimatums. Usually when you give an ultimatum you don't get what you want. If he really cares about you as a person, he won't keep pressing for a relationship. It always strikes me odd that people are always trying to push other people in the relationship. It makes me wonder how many people out there are in relationships they want out of. Hold your ground. If you lose him, just know it's better than leading him on. Good luck and stay strong!

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