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female
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51-59,
*amelessness
writes:OKAY! i dont know if this is okay or not,ive been dating my bf for 6 months now and he has no trust for me, he tells me all the time how he doesnt trust me to go to my friends cuz they smoke weed and drink but they dont make me do it although i do it somtimes just cuz i enjoy doing it its fun every now and then its not like i do it everyday.We are really close we hangout at his house and mine almost everyday after school and on the weekends, but just about every chance he gets he takes my phone and goes through it and deletes pics that he doesnt like and reads all my txts and just everything i have he goes through. It wouldnt bother me so much if he let me go through his phone but he doesnt at all every time i even touch his phone he freaks out and wont let me see it or go through it, i mean i trust him but its got me thinkin lately that maybe hes hiding something. idk but he is really close with his ex gf and they talk all the time they didnt date for long but they were bffs before and they still are he says she is his best friend.so...idk what to do about it. should i be worried?
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reader, guccigirl89 +, writes (13 March 2009):
He's definitely cheating or very insecure, but I say it's cheating! He won't even let you go through his phone! I feel that if he can go through your phone you have the right to go through his. Most men that are cheating become very insecure and controlling. They don't want you to do what their doing. He probably still has strong feelings for his ex girl. So if you decide to stay with him, just lock your phone up to keep him out of it. He doesn't even deserve to put hands on it! You all aren't even married and have not been going together that long!!!
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