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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I need some advice regarding a fella I have liked for a while.We work together and we started to flirt about three years ago but we never really spoke until about two years ago, we arranged to go out once but he blew me out without an excuse after that we stopped talking.We then starting flirting and I arranged to meet him but something did come up and I had to cancel but I told him why, he replied another time, and I relpied something else and he just replied back that we wanted different things he just wanted a bit of fun nothing serious. Again we didn't speak after that.Over the last six months we have begun flirting again and we both gave into temptation and snogged (a lot of sexual tension). He was turned on and now I am thinking what will happen now as I really want him but I have never had sex or give oral I have only ever kissed and he has lots of partners and if he only wants sex then have I been stupid kissing him. Can this have a happy outcome, what should I do next.Thanks for taking the time in reading this.
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reader, Olivia(Y). +, writes (14 March 2009):
 Don't just have sex with someone. Make sure you are in a loving and commited relationship before you do or you are at risk for being used by him.
Invite him out for a drink or go and watch a movie. Get to know each other more and you might just fall in love with each other. Making him wait will make him want you more.
Kissing him won't hurt anyone. Make sure you are in a relationship before you have sex with him though.
Good luck
Livia
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