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writes:i broke up with this guy in the yr 2005 we been through so much and ppl hated on us. but for some reason we still mess around on the low and its 2009 now. i feel like he has too much pride to let ppl know hes still into me after all the things we went through and after all these years.. so i dont know what to do should i stop or what does mean??
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reader, ArmyMedic  +, writes (4 February 2009):
 You should stop, he is using you! He doesn't love you but wants to have sex while he is looking for someone new.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2009): If he is too proud to commit to you, he should decide for once and you, as well. It's time for you to talk and make a point. While you are stuck in a relationship that doesn't work you close the door to other possibilities which is unfair to both of you. Therefore you must ask him if he can find a willingness to work on your relationship and if you can be a couple again in the real sense of the word. Otherwise you should let go and carry on with your life. Whereas a new relationship would need to pass through all the specific stages including the courtship, you know each other better after all these years, so your relationship may be more comfortable and easy in his eyes. This is why some pick a cosy but many times confusing deal with an ex. Examine together why it would be a good idea to get back together and why not. By all means avoid additional heartache though by carrying on in a tricky situation without knowing where you stand. Best wishes.
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