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Is she taking revenge for me shouting at her?

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Question - (4 February 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 4 February 2009)
A male India age 51-59, *ivina2000 writes:

Dear Sir

I am married to my wife for the last 10 years. We had some fight now and then and i have two kids/. At night i see that when i am turned to other side and snoring[which she uses as signals] she moves her folded legs with thighs attached to each other from one side to the other side and she is awake. When i am awake i find that her nipples are erect, her vagina is lubricated and her bossoms are big. I have asked her why especially this happens when i am near you.You could do elsewhere. She says she did not do anything, but i feel she is taking revenge for the shouts i gave her. I know she is not getting an orgasm, but she is aroused. At times when she asks me to have intercourse just like that and she is not interested without any foreplay i do coitus and i find white fluids on my penis. Kindly let me know what is all this??

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2009):

What do you mean revenge?

As Emily said, your nearness arouses her. It's a GOOD thing. Her body is responding to yours.

Some woman don't need alot of foreplay in their 40's because their bodies are at their sexual peak.

And sometimes after a heated argument, there's 'make-up' sex. An argument can be very passionate (if done without degrading) and we want to release the stirred up emotions, and feel assured you still want/love us.

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (4 February 2009):

She is TURNED ON.

This does not means she has been masturbting, it means that you - her gorgeous lovely husband - is lying there looking beautiful and asleep and powerful. If a girl loves you they will get turned on by you being there sometimes. Or she could be having a nice dream about having sex with you?

Why do you see this as a bad thing? If you turn around and your wife is aroused then you can kiss her and join in!

The white stuff is natural lubricant produced by women when they are having sex. If they were dry, it would hurt. More is produced when they are enjoying sex.

To conclude:

Your Wife Loves you, is attracted to you, and you please her during sex.

You do not have a problem, you are a lucky man!

Good Luck!! xx

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