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writes:Hi there.I work with a guy who is forever asking me what I am doing after work. I cannot tell if he is asking to be friendly or if he is interested. I have noticed that he seems kind and compassionate but wonder if his question is based on his kind nature or if her is interested. How can I find out. I guess I would rather know sooner rather than later so I would not get my hopes up. Thank you to anyone who replies. Reply to this Question
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reader, lacexoxo22  +, writes (5 February 2009):
 I agree with Emily. I would wait for him to ask you again and answer him by saying something like, "oh well I don't have anything planned, why you wanna go for a quick drink/bite to eat or something after work?" And I'm sure you can tell whether or not he's interested by his response. If he agree's to have a little something with you after work, he's more then likely interested in you and trying to possibly "spark" some kind of relationship with you...whether it's something as simple as a friendship (just a buddy from work he has drinks with) or maybe he wants a little more. You won't know unless you respond to his question with a question. Don't be afraid, take that leap and see what happens. Good luck, hope this helps.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (5 February 2009):
Wait for him to ask you again, tell him nothing and ask if he wants to go for a drink.
Then if you get on like a house on fire all night and he walks you home and tries to kiss you then he's interested.
If you have a great time and he shows no interest then you have made a friend.
Win win!
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, HelperGal8997 +, writes (5 February 2009):
i think he is intrested in u so just go for it and ask him out dont be nervous!
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