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writes:Trying to make my relationship work at home I was previously cheating on my boyfriend with a married man but I no longer do that. I love my boyfriend but our sex is horrible 10 pumps and he's done I need more pleasure from him what should I do? Its hard to climax when he's been before me.
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reader, aman +, writes (4 February 2009):
He sounds like kind of a dick. Are you happy being with him? It sounds like the sex is only the beginning of your issues with him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNot really but I feel kinda stuck because that's my sons father and I do care for him
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (4 February 2009):
 Is this really the kind of man you want for a boyfriend?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThat's the thing its so good to him he tells his friends about our sex and now they want me. I told him to stop being so mouthy cause his his friends are tryin to holla at me. He tells absolutely everything and he has made the statement I better get mine before he get his but I can't do that in one or two minutes. The only time sex last a while is if he has been drinking and he don.t hit the right spot then either
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reader, CIsaac +, writes (4 February 2009):
 Communication is the key. let him know what you want. Also, Have you ever asked him how you make him feel? I mean do you think you pleasure him as much as he wants. Sometimes the better you make it for him, the better it is for you. Be open and honest.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (4 February 2009):
Umm, good grief. I don't really know any surefire method to inform a man that he is a dud in the sack. It would all have to be very subtle, but one possible way is to hint to the wife of one (or more) of his best friends - who will undoubtedly tell her hubby, who may then say something like, "Hey dude, I hear you don't know how to please a woman!" or "You can't keep it up, huh?" Or something like that.
This could backfire, which is why it really needs to be clever, but I know that most men would feel pretty small if his friends thought that he was less a man. At least I would, but I don't know if this is a good suggestion or not. It may be under certain circumstances. It would depend on all parties. Of course, you know that you're not alone among unsatisfied wives, but that is little consolation.
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reader, im_a_dummy +, writes (4 February 2009):
 well, someone told me that if you dont have sex and he doesnt jerk off for a few weeks, he should be able to last longer because it feels so good he will hold back to keep going or somthing like that, i dont remember exactly... sorry not much help. :/
just try not doing it for a few weeks?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSee he is just one of those men that you can't suggest nothing to.it seems to me that he just cares about pleasing himself that's why I started cheating in the first place. He claims its just to good
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reader, aman +, writes (4 February 2009):
1) If you aren't using a condom, use one... makes guy last longer.
2) If he's done in 10 pumps he should be good for multiples... wait a few minutes and see if he can go again. Each time he should be able to last longer.
3) Maybe check about getting a cock ring... it prevents it from going down so quick.
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