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writes:Does this seem odd? I was with my ex boyfriend for 2yrs and in all that time when we had sex he never lasted more than 2 minutes! Hes only 30. But before i met him he had slept with nearly 100! We never talked bout our sex life i just accepted it. Thats a selfish lover isnt it? I always wanted to please him but he never spent much time on me! Is he like this cos hes use to so many drunken one nite stands? I dont think he thought it was a problem! Hes very cocky and loves himself and he thinks women loves him? But surely other women must of said something about his perfomance? It was a very destructed relationship he mentally and emotionally abused me. Put me down and called me names i did everything for him and he knows it! I never said anything cos i was frightned of losing him and him going back to his charming womaning ways. I since found out hes brought some viagra! I havent seem him for 5 months but he wanted to be my friend on facebook recently but i ignored him. He cant do relationships so hes obvious going out having one night stands using viagra! And girls will think wow hes good wont they!i hate how hes made me feel bout my self im on anti depressants cos of him! I just want him to get his comupmence! Dont think thats how u spell it!
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (4 February 2009):
 Ugh, thank God you ditched THAT loser.
Seriously, without knowing this guy I feel like I already know him. Probably pretty good looking, he's somewhat charming - he thinks that he is amazing. That's how he gets the chicks. Then he gets them into bed. He has probably convinced himself over the years that this is how sex is supposed to be and paired with him being completely self-obsessed, he is a disaster in bed. He's only out to please himself and all his ex bedmates know it. I'm sure they're all still wallowing in the disappointment too.
He's a selfish little boy. Take satisfaction in knowing that girls will always be let down, he's already using Viagra, someday he will be old, wrinkly and senile (all though it sounds like he's already delusional) and still a jerk but allll alone.
Now you know what to avoid in a man! Please, as Emily says, go get checked for STI's. Your ex doesn't sound like health is his priority. And really, don't feel bummed out about this guy - feel relieved and a little stronger now that he is out of your life!
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (4 February 2009):
If he's having that many one night stands then it's probably because no girl will have him more than once.
Also if he's so horrible that he made you go on anti-depressants then you stayed with him far too long. Some guys are bastards. As soon as you see signs of this, you leave, you don't stay with them till you get this bad.
Get your self fully screened for STDs as he has probably caught something and spread it around if he's been getting drunk and putting it about.
He's a pathetic low life and he will end up alone. The only way he won't is if some girl is stupid enough to put up with him.
Never put up with this kind of behaviour in a man again.
Good Luck!! xx
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