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writes: how do i get over my ex girlfriend? i cant stop thinking about her. we just got out of a 9 month relationship . it seems such short time but through that time were the best moments of my life. i still love her so much and i just cant stop thinking about her. what do i do to get over her? im 18 now and im lost. any advice??
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reader, cute_lily +, writes (4 February 2009):
When you love some-one as much as you did, it takes time to get over that person. You obviously loved her and stil love her very much. i would like to say that you should just forget her but I know that it is unlikely. I'm not going to lie by saying it will be easy to move on but the best thing to do is try. I don't mean, find another girlfriend but mean try doing other things to take your mind off her. Like sheridan said, go out with your mates or find a hobby. It is the best way. Just remember this, it can only get better from here. Hope this helps.
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reader, chardonnay +, writes (4 February 2009):
I agree with what sheridan said. But also think about why u broke up as somethin obviously wasnt working. I think when u break up with some1 all u think about is the good tyms. But there must have been bad times 2 after all our not together anymore. The single life has it advantages, and i'm sure if you go out n meet some1 else, and it wont be half as bad. I think the first thing u need to do is to get back out there, n realise the other great people you could be with.
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reader, sheridan +, writes (4 February 2009):
hi i know how you feel its hurt so much but the best u can do is keep busy, find a hobby, go out with mates, the more time you have to think the more it hurts, trust me when i say it will get better and you will find somone else, just dont do anything stupid . hope this helps if you need any more help you can private messege me
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