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Could my boyfriend be gay because he watches she-male videos?

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Question - (4 February 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 9 February 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, *as45925 writes:

i`m 22 years old i have a 2 year old daughter and im 6 months pregnant and my boyfriends goes on porn alot but when i recentley check what videos hes been on it says chicks with dicks and shemales does that mean he could be gay?

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A male reader, aman United States +, writes (9 February 2009):

If there is a problem in your relationship, TALK TO HIM. There is nothing else you can do. Tell him how you feel.

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A female reader, sas45925 United Kingdom +, writes (6 February 2009):

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i currently checked again and hes going on searching for pictures and videos and masturbating every morning. we hardly ever have sex and i dont no what to do.

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A female reader, chardonnay United Kingdom +, writes (4 February 2009):

I agree with the comments above, as long as their are no effects in your sex life, i wouldn't worry. I think it is a naturally thing for people to explore their sexuality. As you have 2 children together i doubt he is disinterrested in sex or gay. If it rele bothers you and u notice he is looking at gay porn sites then I would start to worry. But i wouldn't have a word unless it became a regular thing.

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States +, writes (4 February 2009):

TasteofIndia agony auntDoes it mean he COULD be gay: Well, sure. he could. We'll get back to that.

Does it mean is IS gay: Absolutely not. Tons of guys and girls get down to some she-male porn. It could be a fetish, as 'aman' says, it could be a phase of curiosity, it could be boredom.

If he loves to look, explore and enjoy your body, I don't think you have a problem. If he seems disinterested in sex, especially wary of your vagina, then you could have a problem - either he's been gay this whole time, or has a porn addiction. I think you would have had a feeling, that trusty women's intuition, in your time together if he was gay.

Good luck!

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A male reader, aman United States +, writes (4 February 2009):

It could just be a fetish. I wouldn't even bring it up unless there are problems in your relationship or the bedroom.

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