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female
age
30-35,
*hazzy
writes:Ok well I meet this guy and he’s really sweet and the first day I meet him we went out on that same day and I think we hit it off, and then we went out 2 days in a row after that, I think I really like him but it’s so confusing because he said he didn’t want anything serious and there’s quite a big age gap. The other day I went out for a few drinks with him and his mate and well we went to his house after not really drunk but he was high on coke too and he kept calling me his girlfriend, is that because his mate was there or he was too high and drunk or he actually meant it. Sorry but this is going to get a little XXX rated so I’m not going to go in to much detail but I went down on him in front of his mate and I was down there at least for half an hour and he said "I said to her I didn’t want anything serious but I’m like going to fall in love with her" (because I was down there for so long I’m guessing, is that the reason?) He said that to his mate in front of me.That was on a Friday night then I saw him Saturday night after leaving his house that morning, and he came to my house Sunday night after leaving his house that morning.I really need to know if you think he’s just using me for sex etc and if I should move on!It would mean so much to me if you could help.Much Love, Chazzy.
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reader, Chazzy +, writes (10 February 2009):
Chazzy is verified as being by the original poster of the questionits algood now were just good mates. no benifits no nothing just good mates.
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reader, The old Man?  +, writes (5 February 2009):
 If you go down on him in front of his mate, do you really expect him to respect you or see you as anything other than sex?
I think you know the answer to that one.....
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reader, susi  +, writes (4 February 2009):
hi know your prob going to be upset but is he the bloke for you if using drugs. He has said doesnt want anything serious so think you should find someone better, know it'll prob hurt me telling you but you deserve better.
What kind of bloke lets his mate watch anyway?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2009): he is using you for his own benifit get rid! once they say there not looking for anything serious they mean they really dont want anything serious and is more or less telling you to keep it as a friendly thing!!
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