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Does this guy like me or am I just creating false hope for myself?

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Question - (4 February 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 4 February 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hi, I would really like some advice about a guy I really like at the moment. All the body language signs that a guy shows when he likes a girl are there ie body position, feet pointing at me, fidgeting and, grooming. Anytime I'm near him he changes from being relaxed to can't seem to stand still!! I've always tried to be friendly towards him to try help him to relax. When we do talk one on one he is very nice to me and the conversation seems to flow. But he hasn't asked for my number or to hang out at all even as friends and we've known each other now for a few months. I'm a bit confused because he is different around me then with his other female friends.

I guess my question is does this guy like me or am I just creating false hope for myself?

Thanks!

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (4 February 2009):

He may like you but not want to be with you for some reason... OR he may just be shy.

Why don't you ask him out?

It's 2009 and we girls are allowed to do that now.

Good Luck!! xx

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A male reader, The old Man? United States +, writes (4 February 2009):

The old Man? agony auntChances are you have an effect on him like no other woman does. He may think you are out of his league, and likes you very much! He's nervous and doesn't know how to approach you. More than likely, he is afraid of rejection.

Be kind and maybe give him a subtle hint that you are interested. Then again, you may have to club him over the head, depending on how nervous he is!

Give him a hug that's more than friendly, yet not too assertive. I think you know what I'm getting at.

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A male reader, mclovin999 Austria +, writes (4 February 2009):

you should ask for his number or to hang out,he may feel the same way and want an answer from u

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2009):

Its sounds as if he may be into you.But,all men react differently,and there really are no specific ways that he will act if he likes you.I know that there are magazines and things that will tell you differently,but honestly...just go with your gut feeling,it is usualy right.Its possible that maybe he is just shy,and isnt sure whether or not you like him? Just step up and ask,thats the best thing to do.If you wait too long,maybe neither one of you will think you like the other,and will never have the chance at a relationship.

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