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writes:My ex wants me to take him back but I was really done with him this time. We have been together for 2 1/2 yrs straight and off and on for the other 3 1/2. It was his choice when we were not together. He was my first everything and we have a daughter. He cheated on me so many times and he was still with girls when I said I was done with him. After that he texted me everyday and wanted to take me out and buy me things. He says that he has left the girls alone and he only wants me. He wants to marry me in 2 yrs now when before he didn't wanna get married. He says he only wants me and he can't be without me. About 4 days ago I let him come by and see the baby and we talked so long that he ended up stayin but we only kissed. I'm so scared because of course I still love him but is he really right for me? Is he tellin the truth? Should I believe him or is he lying to get me back where he wants me? PLEASE HELP!! What should I do??
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reader, kellyxxx  +, writes (4 February 2009):
 he sounds like he likes the idea of the stability that you provide in a relationship, personally i wouldnt let him get back with me! you have a daughter and so you should keep contact for her sake however i'm sure that there are plenty of amazing men out there who wouldnt dream of putting you in such a horrible situation and cheating on you! dont let your guard down with him, i know its hard as he has been a very significant part of your life but you need to start moving on with your life now and leave him behind. life is too short to be around people who treat you badly! i hope this goes well for you, and i hope my answer has helped a little bit. keep me updated,x
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