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writes:hi i have problem with someone.I am a girl and i have met with someone who is working in the same place with me and he wanted my cell and after that we started to talk almost everyday and everyday we text it happens for 3 weeks.he always says me u make me cherfull and he said me that he liked talking with me.but he also said me prety words and he said me u are my friend. Even though he said me u are m friend,he always text me.after 3 weeks he stopped calling me and of course i didnt call him and after a while he text me and said that he was in hospital he was sick and he fainted and he said me u are mad at me and inncocent my life i cant change u and thnx for good luck. Till he recovered i texted him everyday. after he felt better he didint text me anymore. 3days ago 2guy from my work wanted to hang out with me but i said them that i am not available and after that i went next to my guy and told them that 2 guy wanted to hang out with me.and he asked me the name seriously i was just smiled.and 3days ago at work i didint care him.also when i get off the work, i usually say him bye.but this time i get off the work without bye.and he text me that u didint even say me bye and i see that u didint love me no more.and u are bothered to be with me.i said him no ofcourse not.and he didint text me after that.3 days passed, he didint text me again i text him again to ask hang out with me he said me maybe next week.I dont understand if he cared me,and if he said me u dont love me anymore or u dont ask me how i am why wouldnt he text me so much?
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reader, ann84 +, writes (23 February 2009):
ann84 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI talked with my guy and asked him in the work that how he sees me as a friend or more than a friend.At first when i asked him, he suprised cause he didint expect that question he said me that he saw me more than as a friend.later he called me at night.we talked he said me more than a friend because i tected u for a while.if i saw u just friend, i didint text u for a long time.but i said him that i thought u saw me a friend because u didint even ask me out with u.he said me that whn we first meet u in the work i ASKED u do u go out? u said me sometimes.so thats why he hesistant about asking me with him.I said him no i can go out with u.
and he said me that: i like u.do u like me?
me: yes
he:do u want to be with me?
me: yes
he: Are u gonna hurt me?
I was suprised because i ddint understand why he asked like that.
also there is problem cause he is going to school and i am goning to school different school.we have no time to see each other
I want u ask u something
so he likes me but he still didint even text me so much.Does he like me? do the guys behave like that?u dont want to be bothered so much.
He asked me do u want to be with me
I said yes but what do u mean when he says like that?i just want to spend mu time with him.cause he offered me to come and visit my house.I dont want him to come my home.and i said him lets meet outside.
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reader, ann84 +, writes (15 February 2009):
ann84 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhey gina u were exactly right.today i text him and he said me that i forgot him and he said me that it seems as i dont like him anymore and he also mentioned that i ignored him in the work behaving coldly yesterday. i said him that i behave u the way u behave me and u dont care me so much.. he said sorry now we stop texting also i mentioned to hang out last friday which we didint hang out cause he didint text me.he said me i dont know ur school schedule.i think thats not a good reason whatever
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reader, ann84 +, writes (15 February 2009):
ann84 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey GinaThnkx for ur advice.Exactly I behaved him cold cause he didint ask me hang out that friday.and always i compare the now according to the past.I always think that in the past he texted me a alot called me alot but why does he behave not? i didint know the answer actually i knew he seems like he doesnt want me so when i yhink like that, i feel myself bad to him so tahts why i behaved him coldly.once a time i behaved him coldly in the work and he texted me after that and said me u dont love me anmore and u dont ask me how i am doing and u are bothered to be with me.I behaved him coldly thats why i wanted to ask him these questions again and wanted to talk him
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reader, ann84 +, writes (15 February 2009):
ann84 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionfirstly thanks for your adviceU said that he is my friend.i asked him to hang out 2 weeks ago he said me that maybe this friday but he didint text me anymore.and also today he text me 'happy valentine'. also today in the work when he saw me he came next me and satated to talk but i didint want to talk him so much cause he didnt text me to hang out and i behaved him coldly.i really liked him but i dont know he likes me.what should i do?
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (4 February 2009):
Sounds like the kind of jokey text I would send "Are you ok? Or do you just not love me any more!? x" if someone had gone off quietly at the end of the day.
He's joking because you are his mate.
I really think you need to work on your self esteem. If you are clutching at straws because a guy has been nice to you then you can't exactly think much of your self.
Tell yourself that if any man wants you then he would have to show it and chase you and take you out to dinner. Not send you cryptic texts. He's just a friend. Ask him for some guy advice and get yourself a nice bloke.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, ann84 +, writes (4 February 2009):
ann84 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok thx guys but if he thought that i am his friend, when i came off the work without bye to him why would he text me and tell me u didint love me no more, u didint ask me how i am doing?
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (4 February 2009):
He is your friend. Do you not have friends that you text a lot?
Go out with the other guy who asked you out. This boy doesn't want a girlfriend or he would have said so by now.
Don't assume that if a boy is nice to you, you should fall for him. Some boys are just nice.
Be his friend but do not think he will ever be your boyfriend.
Good Luck!! xx
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