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writes:My boyfriend is 21 and in the last two months he has seemed to lost his libido completely. And I was wondering what I can do to help him. And is it normal for him to lose his sex drive at such a young age?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2009): I am 21 and my boyfriend of 15 months is 22. We are experiencing the same thing as well. For nearly the frist year we were in a long distant relationship so we had nearly everytime we were together. Now that we go to the same school I have noticed his change in sexual needs. At first I though it was something I was doing wrong but fortunately we have a very open relationship. I started asking questions wondering if there was something going on or something I did and at first he said it was stress with school involvements. But yet months later he still had no sexual drive...roughly once a month. I asked him about it again and he informed me that he just isn't a very sexual person. I am the type that believes in "making love" and I want show my deepest feelings for him that way. We talked about how we each feel and got an understanding of why and that has helped so far. I have talked to others about this situation and they say that if your needs don't meet then you need to break up, but that is not the route I want to go at all. I hope I was able to give you some ideas to put you in the right direction. I wish you the best!!
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (4 February 2009):
No it is not normal.
It is most likely to be stress related, or a symptom of mild depression.
he may have fallen out of love with you, or it could be a symptom of serious illness. Has your demand for sex become routine? Have you stopped bothering dressing up and looking nice for him?
You don't give any details of what other problems you are having so it's impossible to advise you.
Good Luck!! xx
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