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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:i've known this guy for quite a few years now and we've never been good friends but we've kept in touch every once in a while. back in december we started hanging out and the night of his birthday we hooked up. the condom broke so he took me to go get the planB pill 2 days later. him and i used to fight like cats and dogs and finally made our peace but we are still not friends how we used to be. now, 2 months later, i am pregnant. back when we weren't sure what was happening he told me he didn't want anything to do with a kid if i was pregnant. how should i tell him i am pregnant? i don't want to do it over the phone or through text/e-mail because he can easily ignore me or hang up on me. how should i tell him?
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reader, im_a_dummy +, writes (4 February 2009):
 hahahahahahahahah, joeee.. ur funny!!!!hun, just take him to lunch and if he doesnt want to meet you, find a day that you have nothing going on, and go to his house, if he isnt home, wait outside... because whether he wants a kid or not, it is his sperm, and its his issue just as much it is yours. Also if he doesnt want to help raise the kid or anything, CHILD SUPPORT! dude, you get a lot from that, i mean its never enough, but its better then nothing!!!!!!!!!! that way, he doesnt have to deal with the baby just paying for it, it was his sperm.also by the PlanB are you talking about the morning after pill?? because 2 days later is way to late for that!
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reader, The old Man? +, writes (4 February 2009):
 My advice is to meet him for lunch or something, and have a talk with him.
What happened to the "plan B"?
In the future, it's a good idea to only have sex with someone that you are willing to have in your life for the rest of your life! Maybe a more effective means of contraception. Condoms are about as reliable as the weather.
Always remember, Accidents cause people!
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