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writes: Is she really interested as I am ? Met a woman six months ago while out at lunch. Gave her my card as we really really had a nice connected coversation and upon shaking hands the eye contact and chemistry was outstanding. Six months go by and I run across her again, never having heard from her. Upon asking her how she's been and remembering her name , she, her niece , and her cousin were at this place together and all freaked out as she had told the neice six months ago about our meeting. We had a fabulous night together with me hanging out and dancing with her all night, even kissing at one point. Here is the kicker, she is leaglly seperated, the divorce final in april. She swears that chapter in her life is over 100%. Two kids in the picture, 11, 14. Another kicker, when we met six months ago she was allready involved with someone who was way too intense for her and wanted to marry her as soon as her divorce was final. She is really really stunned by the timing of our meeting again as she has ended that previous relationship without me even being in the picture, kind of a fate and maybe we were supposed to meet again thing. She has also started a 3 month crash course in college to finish getting her masters, its a years worth of schooling all put in three months timeframe. My question is this, am I setting myself up to get hurt? I feel completley in love with this woman, we haven't had sex but flirt well and have kissed a lot and the chemistry is definitly there. Not a lot of phone calls just enough calls and txting to stay in touch. Bewteen her kids and school she is really wrapped with time. I even hesatate about Valentines day because of adding to much pressure. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
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reader, kellyxxx  +, writes (4 February 2009):
 you're right to pursue her however she does seem like she has a lot on her plate at the minute. i would talk to her and see what she would like, that way you know where you stand. she may well be as interested as you are but she may not have the time for anything else in her life right now. maybe arrange a lunch date or something brief (a couple of hours, not a whole evening) if you feel it is going well, bring up what you want from the relationship...monitor how she responds, you should know by this whether she is as interested as you are. if you still have problems then update me on the situation. x
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