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writes:My dad past away 4 month ago. He was always there for me through all my relationships. When he passed away, they said I have to come live with my mother, who i havent seen since she left me at age 8 years old. Well i started living with her, she's Persian and really strict and to make matters worse, she works for the FBI haha yep a Persian mom working for FBI. Well, I went to my new school and I met this guy who's my age 17 and in two of my classes...we switched phone numbers..i hit him up and we started to hangout and the first time we hungout..we went to the movies and he said it was a date, we madeout then it all lead to romance...we always saw eachother at school hungout at school, but afterschool, i usually couldn't hangout with him. since i knew my mom is such a crazy Persian lady, i told him i don't want a relationship but i didn't really tell him why i just said because i dont believe high school relationships work, which is also true, but not the actual reason why. Anyway, one day me and him ditched school and went over to his house..on our way back my mom's car was right behind his...he totally freaked out, and my mom slapped me in front of him. after that, i noticed he kinda changed, well i dont blame him that day was a nightmare...i changed too..until one day which was (4 days ago) he told me he doesnt want to be committed to me. and he broke up with me...the thing is the whole entire time we were together (2 month) I thought we were just hookup buddies until the day he broke up with me and said "i considered you as my girlfriend" well i smiled and said "i considered you as my boyfriend" the thing is though, after what happened with him and my mom i took him out for sushi and i paid for it, then i bought him an xbox for christmas and my mom also two days after what happened with him and my mom, she texted him and apologized because i made her, but shes so crazy that he just didnt even wanna deal with her anymore. I really do like him tho, he kind of reminded me of the guy i was in love with. I dont know what to do...he broke up with me and everyday im sitting at home crying over him and today i went out with my friends to the movies and all i could think about was him because the last time i went to the movies was with him which was an AMAZING night...i dont know what to do...he said he wants to be friends but i know hes just was being nice because of the xbox i got him,,,cause i told him i dont want anything to do with him and i want my present back and i'll give his back too which was this shitty earrings from macys. but he didnt take his present back and i didnt take mine...i felt bad. and i told him i'll hit him up when im ready to be his friend because i still like him and he said he totally respects that. well i hit him up two days after because i found out this girl that we both hate has been telling him i have lied about something and i just texted him to let him know i found out it was her and that im shocked he would believe her and all he said was "now i know the truth! you need to stop this, its ridiculous" and then i tried changing the subject by asking him to hangout this friday which was yesterday and he said "yeah im down" and then i told him before 8pm to make it sound like i have stuff to do after and he just said "i don't know we'll see" then he never called or anything and i just prank called him an hour ago which i will never do again haha. but seriously im lost and confused what do i do? call him and tell him i miss him or should i wait a few month then hit him up again?
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reader, kellyxxx  +, writes (4 February 2009):
 hmm well. . . you and your mum need to sort out your issues, have a heart to heart i feel alot on unresolved things here and this will help you work towards a stronger relationship. if this guy doesnt bother with you then just remain as friends. dont go out of your way for him, he'll think your desperate, just play it cool for now. let the dust settle and see how everything works out on its own. hope i've been helpful. keep me updated! xx
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