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writes:I have been married for 30 years and 15 yrs ago i had a friendship which my wife found out about. for the last 15 years she has referred back to this relationship, she has become very jealous has become over weight and all we do is argue. i have lost my feeling and love for her and told her that i want divorse. i told her i do not love her. she now insists we try again she will change and that i will fall in love again. how do you build /work on relationship if there no love
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reader, TELLULAH  +, writes (4 February 2009):
 It is hard, but not impossible. It depends on how much work you are willing to put in. If you really dont want to bother, then its unfair on your wife to let her think there is hope for you both.
I hope that you will at least be honest with her, and remember it is you that made the mistake not her, so she has every right to have felt the way she did.
Good luck to you both X
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (4 February 2009):
Give it a chance. Remember how much you felt for her when you met her. She is still that woman.
Do the things that you used to do when you were dating and just try to relax and open your mind.
If it still does not work then you can at least say you did everything you could to save your marriage.
Good Luck!! xx
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