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writes: I dont know what to do !im feeling pretty low right now. I feel like im about to lose something i could of had, because of my friends. me and my friend wre talking in a conversation on msn. She thought i liked this boy that i have been talking with for a few months. And yes i do but i didnt wanna admit it. but she started nagging so i said fine i wont talk to him anymore. and she replied good idea. i dont want to lose him. but i dont want to reveal my feelings to my friend either. what am i going to do now ? he makes me feel REAL happy , am i throwing it away to prove a lie ?xx
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reader, HonningKanin +, writes (29 May 2008):
Hun its a bit silly to to not talk to a guy just cause you told your friend you wouldn't. Even if you did lie about it it shouldn't matter.
If you do talk to this boy again and your friend confronts you just say to her.. So? I didn't want to admit it.
If she asks why say you dont know and that you just didn't.
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reader, aunt_steph +, writes (29 May 2008):
Hi I think you should talk to your friend and tell her how you feel about this guy. If she's your real friend she will understand that this is hard for you to do, you could carry on talking to him just to make sure these feelings for him are as strong as you think and not just because you feel you cannot talk to him i hope this helps you out.
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reader, 123emma +, writes (29 May 2008):
Sounds to me like she just wants you for herself, jealous she isn't getting the attention. Maybe she's used to you showing all your attention on her, or she's jealous because she thinks he'll like you back and she wants to be no 1. Either way, don't ditch that guy just to please her, just talk to him anyway. I mean, whats she going to do, go over and stop you? If she would do that she's not a real friend. x
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reader, Sweety Pie +, writes (29 May 2008):
Tell your friend you think hes 'alright'. Then just carry on with him. If you go out then its all good. Why dont you want your friend to know? If shes a close friend then you should beable to tell her. If not then its none of her buisness. Dont let anyone affect your happiness x
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (29 May 2008):
Why are you letting your girlfriend dictate who you should or shouldn't like? What is it to her?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionbecause she has a big gob
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reader, A Cappella +, writes (29 May 2008):
why don't you want your friend to know that you like him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionPlease answer i dont know what to do :(
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