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writes:I am thinking of asking my ex back as she's single again, and I still love her so much, despite what she did. I'd like to know which readers of this site have been successful in getting their ex back, and what the best way to go about it is, without scaring them off?!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionshe emailed me this morning, saying that she just wanted to be friends. I still don't have a clue why she'd go to all that trouble of changing her status on Facebook, and ringing me on a Saturday night, when she only wanted to be friends.
Oh well, her loss
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIf I do phone her again, wont it seem a bit stalkerish?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHer sister said on Friday, like I told you, they have financial difficulties; thats why she hasnt rung or texted. Do you think I should give her a call back later in the week?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIf she doesn't ring for any reason, shall I call back?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWhy am I so shy even wanting to talk to her on the phone?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThis is an interesting twist!
On Saturday, it was our mutual friends birthday. I texted her and wished her happy birthday and asked her if she was doing anything; she said she was going clubbing and sorry I wasnt invited cos it was a last minute thing.
So, I said give my love to Tash (my ex), Claire and Jess (two mutual friends).
I was then asked to go and watch the qualifying for the Superbikes, and I forgot to take my phone with me - and what happened? She rung me to say hello (or thats what she said!) not once, not twice, but three times. I tried to ring back Sun morning, but no answer.
(A bit of background on this, she went out with a guy, she changed her relationship status to single on Facebook, cos she wanted to get her ex (after me) jealous. Three weeks ago she changed it back to in a relationship, but then five days later, on the front page of FB I see Tash's status is now Single - is she doing the same thing again?))
The above may not have anything to do with my situation, but is she just being friendly, or wants is really single again? (Why would she ring me in a club Sat night 3 times if she wasn't interested?)
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWhat percentage of readers think that, when it comes to asking a girl out, men should make the first move?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionDo you think I should email this poem to her?Your eyes are as haunting as stars in the sky,Your skin is gorgeous and clean,Your smile is eternally beautifulAnd you are the girl of my dreams.You radiate warmth wherever you go,You really light up a room,Every time I think of youIt eradicates the gloom.I imagine your kiss to be sweeter than wineYour lips so soft and tender,Your touch so lovely and divine,Will you, once again, be mine?Make my birthday wish come true (My birthday is on 13 June)
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reader, StudentOfLife  +, writes (29 May 2008):
 Well I was successful with that because of one reason, she still loved me too.When she broke up with me, she stayed in contact with me (calling me, msn .. etc) and I was crushed because I still loved her and respected the fact that she "didn't love" me anymore.One day, I called her and told her to come to my place because I wanted to talk. I told her to give me some times, that I still loved her and that because she was still staying in contact with me that I couldn't move on.We talked, and she admitted that she still loved me.I don't think you'll scare her off, maybe like in my situation, she still love you but she's waiting for you to make your move. It's hard for someone to admit they made a mistake.But that's life, we make mistakes all the time.
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