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Is a blow job for a groom a tradition?

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Question - (29 May 2008) 15 Answers - (Newest, 20 June 2008)
A female United States age 41-50, *IERIN writes:

Hey sisters and brothers

Just a funny one

Just spoke to some friends ... bullshitting .. question was

DO you think its a tradition for a GROOM to get blown at a bachelore party??? 95%guys said YES!

So, how do you guys feel over here?

Just an info .. I dont know anyone thats getting married anytime sooon, so its more as a couriosity than need to know ...

Write some fun answers

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A male reader, LazyGuy Netherlands +, writes (20 June 2008):

LazyGuy agony auntWait a minute, I could have had one?!? DO OVER!

No, don't think so. I think the tradition is to drink to much, talk to much and make up tall tales about it.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2008):

I never heard of that, but if it's true, I'm going to ask my wife if she wants to redo our wedding vows. :))

P.S. Don't tell her about this.

Where did you hear the 95% thing. If it was from your friends then I think they're pulling your leg.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2008):

Well it depends on what his getting blown by, anything wet, willing and open is a no-no..... Blown by an electronic fan, the wind, or the gas that comes out of his friends mouth, well I got no problems with that and neither should he.

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A female reader, neverguesswho United States +, writes (19 June 2008):

having oral sex with someone before you get married even at a bachelor party would be a deal breaker.

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A female reader, LIERIN United States +, writes (30 May 2008):

LIERIN is verified as being by the original poster of the question

LIERIN agony auntHahaha! Stupid little boy .. some anonymous people sure know how to read!!!!! Why don't you get a real "name" and I maight think about growing up my penis since I was born with Vagina!

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A female reader, duskyrowe United Kingdom +, writes (30 May 2008):

duskyrowe agony auntHi Lierin. Anon reader must be blind as they have got your gender wrong and called you "A stupid boy".

Regarding your question.... Not that I know of..... but hey they do usual blokey things like tie the groom to be naked to a lamp post. Women can be just as bad too.... watching male strippers, flashing their boobs etc. Your mates are pulling your leg Hun, where do they get their statistics from? Dusky xxx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2008):

Hang on, by guys at the bachelore party?!

What the...?!

If it was my bf and I was his bride, I might think it's pretty funny coz he'd probably have been drunk, and would be devestated and so embarrassed in the morning!

But if it was a girl 'blowing' him, hell, I'd rip the damn organ off!

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A female reader, musics_muse United States +, writes (30 May 2008):

it's only tradition if women get to do the same at THEIR bachelorette parties.

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A male reader, Replacement Canada +, writes (30 May 2008):

Replacement agony auntHahaha... no it is not tradition.

The guys you were talking to must have been joking. Or they are really stupid.

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (30 May 2008):

Tisha-1 agony auntHey, if the bachelor wants to get a blowjob from his good male buddies, who's to say no? Well, maybe the bride, but she'll never know.

Hahahaha, I'm looking forward to reading more answers!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2008):

Tradition, right, yeah, i bet there are loads of blokes would love to carry that one on. No bloke who is going to get married should have a blow job done by anyone but his new wife to be. Sorry to be old fashioned but hey, that is how i see it.

take care

xx

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A male reader, eddie Canada +, writes (30 May 2008):

eddie agony auntWell.....it is a nice gesture that one of his bachelor buddies wants to blow him but......just kidding. It is not appropriate for a guy to be sticking his penis into any orifice that doesn't come attached to the person he's marrying.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2008):

I'm a guy and I have to say this: Hell no!!! I mean sure there will be a wild bachelor party and sometimes it can be a lot of fun, yet getting a blow job from somebody that they don't know will be a serious marriage breaker. It destroys the value of trust and honesty in a marriage. Come on! That's completely ludacris! Blow jobs are not tradition, it's immoral!

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A male reader, PeterPan United States +, writes (30 May 2008):

PeterPan agony auntFunny answer? OK... I wished I had known that was tradition the weekend I got married!!!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2008):

Then 95% of the guys you asked are pigs. If that's a grooms' tradition, the brides' should be to dump her fiancee right quick. Disgusting. pathetic and totally unacceptable.

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