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writes:I want to ask my bff out. shes female too. what should i say?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2008): You ought to see how she feels about gay relationships and people first really. If she doesn't like them then by telling her you could wreck your friendship.
Once you know this then you should try and work out if she feels the same way for you.. or things could be awkward. Does she show any signs of liking you back or anything?
Keep us posted! Good luck!
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reader, AbiMF  +, writes (29 May 2008):
If you're not already out you could try coming out to her first, then leave it a few days for her to get her head around that before you say anything else. It'll also have the added advantage that if she does like girls she's more likely to tell you because she'll know that you'll be okay with it. Hope it works out xxx
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reader, FallenEsme +, writes (29 May 2008):
This depends somewhat. Do you know if your friend is attracted to women at all?Failing that, do you know that she's tolerant of girls who like girls?If at least one of those is yes, then just ask, "Would you like to go out to the movies?" or whatever. Pretty much the same way you'd ask a boy out.If you're not at least certain that she's okay with homosexuality, you might find that out first.
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