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writes:I'm confused about my ex bf and have a few questions. A week before breaking up with me, he started ignoring some of my messages which he would always reply too. he stoped calling and messaging me non stop and asking where i was and who i was with and waht i was doing. I thought this was odd, i talked to a friend who said maybe hes just got alot going on...so i tried not to think much of it. i did question him about his change in behaviour and he denied any changes and made up some lame excuses. anyway, we would always spend saturday nights together but the last sat night b4 he broke up with me he wouldnt commit to any plans with me. he said i should stay at home and get my rest. but i told him i was fine and wanted to go out, but he still would insist he went out without me. so i said to him i was going out with some friends and he was wlecome to come if he wanted too. so he said he would come, i think he said that because he doesnt like me going out at night by myself when there will be guys around.anyway, then he asked me if i wanted to sleep over his place that night, i said yes...but then hours later he changed his mind and said he didnt feel well, so he droped me back at my place. but he said he would call me the next day and see me to give me my suprise he had for me. the next day i saw him and his suprise was a present and he invited me to this big family dinner of his that night(his family always invited me to celebrations of theres). i went and he seemed so odd, like he was yelling at his brother which he had never done before in my presence, and he just seemed very angry. then the following day, he broke up with me in a text message!!! he wouldnt give me a proper reason, just that it wasnt workng out for him. I am so confused!!! It seems he was thinking about breaking up with me for at least a week as he cut down on the contact with me and was making excuses not to see me. but then he goes and invites me to sleep over his place, buys me a present and invites me to a big family dinner. why would he do that? im just so confused by his behaviour. It's like he lead me on for right near the end, only to break my heart soon enough.
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reader, 19agegap  +, writes (29 May 2008):
you know what...my ex bf broke up with me like that too. We had a great time a week before..then 5 days later he broke up with me via email. I will be interested to know what others have to say!
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