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anonymous
writes:hi I'm nearly 18 and single. I'm still a virgin. I have this friend who I'm quite close to, she is same age. We always up for trying something fun. Whenever we drink we have good laugh. I think we now want to try sex. There's a few things though I'm willing to go really slow to make it as enjoyable as possible for her. Contraception obviously will be used. Do you guys have anymore tips?
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reader, natashaxx  +, writes (1 June 2008):
to be honest with u if shes ur best friend u shudnt have sex with her because it will only ruin ur friendship, i slept with one of my close mate two years asgo and we lost all contact because it was embarrasing after
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (30 May 2008):
 Oh, I think the 14/15 year olds get told not to have sex, unless I'm not reading the same posts...
Anyway, I did post something for you to read, here's the link:
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/advice-to-young-men-about-young-women.html
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionoh when I ask for help I get a lecture when some 14/15yr old asks u guys have lyk 20posts of helpful advise. Older ones get the lecture hey!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2008): Being a virgin is not a disease!! Your penis will not turn green and drop off just because you have not had sex! There is absolutely no rush whatsoever.Sex is much more than a merely physical function, it is, in fact, a way a married couple become 'one', and there is a huge amount of emotional and spiritual connection between two partners, so that when you come apart you almost leave a bit of your soul with that person. For this reason I truly believe it is always best saved til marriage, but if you really can't wait then do yourself and your female friend a favour and at least wait for somebody you have attraction towards or that you would consider being in a committed relationship with.This friend may be 'up for it' but she is a woman, and not just an object for you to hump against, if she is your friend, you should treat her with the same respect you would treat your sister, even if she does not respect herself (in fact even more so in this case!!)All the best to you, I hope you manage to work this out for yourself, and save yourself a lot of pain and complication.
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