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writes:How do you feel when your in love? Is it diffrent for everyone? How do you know if someone is the one? I have never been in love so anyone in love please share how you feel about it. Thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2011): let me explain: love is amazing it kills at times, but when the person you love loves you back, its like the world re started.im inlove with this guy. we have a big past. he used to love me. he begged for me , i didnt want him. we became close friends. he changed and i fell in love with him. i confesed to him while he had a girlfriend. i was lucky enough to go through the pain and they broke up a little after. he told me he likes me too. we kissed a couple of times. we went out for a little while. everyone of his touches made me go crazy. now i made a big mistake. and now he hates me. i still love him and will do anything and everything for him. hes ugly. but amazing. hes a jackass hes not a good person but something about him.. i dont even know to be honest.what i feel is like my heart goes in a knot everytime i see him. when he walks by me nd tries to make me jealouse by hugging my friends. it kills me but no1 finds out. its just i go to sleep i think of him. i wake up i think of him. i research love stuff just for him. its crazy why cant we just start over?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2010): theres alot of meaning 4 love but the kinda love i have is very special,im in long distance relationship for 6 months now and i really cant complain because
1.he make me feel complete
2.he makes me laugh
3.he is the last person i think about b 4 i go to sleep and the first person to think about wen i wake up
sometimes i cant help but smile wen i see him on webcam it makes me cry cause i ask my self if this is what i really want, but i have realize that you can't lose by loving but u will always lose by holding back and that's why im never gonna let him go cause he is the love of my life and im not gonna let him go no where because our love conqours all and everything else that don't matter
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reader, Gac3 +, writes (24 January 2009):
I fell in love in sixth grade. I know I'm young but once I talked to her for the first time I knew right then I loved her. I still am in sixth grade and she has confessed her love for me as I have for her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2009): I know i am in love becasue of the simple fact that you feel it. The constant heartbeat, the love he shows you, and if you could pick him through a crowd. If when hes not around for one day all your thoughts are based around him. You miss his smile, sent, sence of humar. Love is not only a feeling its a thought of knowing could you be with him forever.
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reader, pink-princess  +, writes (31 December 2008):
I am 16 and i have been with my boyfriend or 13 mnths n i know im in love with him because whenever im with him my heart beats twice as fast as it normlly does n when im not with him im constantly wishing i was. i know im young and people say to me that im too young for love but you can't help when you fall in love. when you find someone you want 2 spend the rest of your life with and your everyday life revolves around them their the only person you want to be with then that is love!! i would do anything for my boyfriend and he is my everything he's not only my boyfriend but hes my best friend too!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2008): its good cuz u care for that peson very much but some times u dont now if ur in love or u just have deep feelings for that person to me iv been in love 3 times and it always didnt go so well so i stoped but the guy i was in love wit just ask for sex what should i do????
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reader, 777ANGEL +, writes (24 November 2008):
hey you definitely know your in love when you think of the person ALL the time i mean day and night!!! you dream about them, u remember the good times with them and your daily life is definitely affected. nothing else seems interesting.. .you just cant get the person out of your mind even if you tried to, its impossible!!!! believe me i am going through it!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2008): If you think about them constantly and your heart beats faster than usual when you lay eyes upon them...then obvously your in love duhhhh??Seriously you think about them when you wake up in the morning and once you go to bed.If your on Aim or msn and your hear that some one is online and you check and its not them,,,you got very sad and your heart sinks,but if it is the person you love then your heart skips and a beat and you have ultimate joy!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2008): LOve? is sacrifice, (I've been in love many times, and I kept on loving anyone who love's me too, even they hurt me many times too...) this is life, we're not normal if we cannot feel this.... It's very difficult to difine love....
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2008): HAy.
Justt read everyy oness comment...
ive been with my Partner 5 monthss... im onlyy 16 and yourr most probss thinking im to youngee to uderstand, but yourr rongg, i Knoww its love i can feel itt, ive neverr feltt the way i feel about him that i havee ne other boy befor..
i likee to think i will spendd the rest of myy life with him but whoo noess :S......
But to mee you know when your in love because;
1. Your feelings changee.
2. You get butterflys when there coming round.
3. you miss them justt afterr you just left them.
4. Their always on your mind no matter what your doing.
5. Your nolonger shy around them and would do nething infront of them.
6. You could speek for hours withOut geting bored.
7. They become part of your every day life.
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reader, Moody_301 +, writes (25 September 2008):
love is when you continiously think bou tha person. Whenever you talk to him you hav a smil on ur face. u want to keep on chatting to them forever. u can talk about absolutly anything with them things you woudlnt dare chat 2 other lads about. its wen tha person knws xactlii hw 2 mke u laff. When that person standss up for u no matter what and hates it wenevr sum1 say anyfin bad about ya. to tell ya da truff ppl itzz juss 2 much hassle
hu needs it (=
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2008): love is feeling where u knw that the person u like can tell u everything can be with u thru thick n thin share ur tears and problems make u feel as thou u are the ponly person in the world who exists they give u everfin they have and want they make sure thet they protect u and keep u away from pain. understand hw u feel and amke u feel lyke a butterfly who is free to do anything it wants love is a true feeling that only u nobody else can understands so take my advice n think dnt judge a book by its cover. U shudnt show the person hate u shud keep them sheltered from pain keep them happy everyday dnt make them feel jealous just happy nothing esle just happy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2008): When you're in love you're:
1) constantly thinking about them
2) unable to concentrate on anything else
3) invincible
4) in a state of madness
5) permanently checking your phone/email
it's the greatest thing in the world - like a drug. Nothing can upset you, you look great, you feel great and all you want is to be with the person who makes you feel this way.
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reader, Daddy's angel +, writes (21 September 2008):
you know when your inlove because your laugh and your always smilein.. its really not differnt for everyone its just the guy.. you know hes the one when you can do anything in front of him.. Yes im in love i just love him for him we do everything together so when you find the one you will know it..
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reader, junebug +, writes (28 July 2008):
you know when your in love bcuz you will see the crazy things that you do like if you guys get in afight and its one of those fight that you know you just have to leave and never come back but you dont u stay no matter how bad it is(unless it like abuse then u get the hell outta ther)and u do anything u can just 2 see that person smile and happy.just to be around them will make ur day. To wake up with nasty smelling breath and looking like crap and to roll over and kiss them and to not care how u look or smell or them not care u just woke up. No matter what happens in ur life for them to be by ur side and that makes u know everything is gonna be alright.honey u will know when your in love!its the best thing sometimes its hard but love conquers all!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2008): Love is something that as soon as it gets you theres no getting out, you can try, but you only get hurt. When your in love you do anything to see that other person or talk to them, you can spend hours on the phone without saying anything but still cherish every moment. You can be yourself in front of that person, and at the same time they love you more. No relationships perfect, arguments happen. But love conquers all so no matter how bad the fight, if your love is strong it will overcome anything. You may not see that person often, if they move away or aint close to you, but that always makes next time your together even better to look forward to. Missing someone is a part of loving them, if your never apart you'll never know how strong your love is. And nomatter who tries to interfear, just let them carry on. They'll get bored soon. But if you get jealous of anyone else then its not true love. Its love, yes. But jealousy is a terrible thing. S/hes with you right? Why would S/he need anyone else? Treat them the way you want to be treated, then they'll grow to love you much more. And sometimes its always ok to let go / break from that person for a while - if they / you cant live without eachother , you know your destined to be together x
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2008): You know your in love when you're fine with putting your pride aside for that person, when you can't go to sleep at night knowing that you guys had a spat and the air has to be cleared, when you change for him not because he wants you to but because you want to, when you make him happy because making him happy makes him happy and when you take him into consideration for even the small things in life. When you admire, respect and accept that person the way he or she is flaws and all. When you can lay in bed with that person and without having sex you make love. You will know when your in love, your heart will tell you!! I know it sounds cliche but it's true, at least for me that's what love is!!
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reader, julie62 +, writes (30 May 2008):
When your in love, you cant seem to get that person off your mind, no matter how much work you try to give your self to distract yourself, you catn seem to focuss.
Its all you can do not to text them or phone them.
When your on msn and the '...is online' message pops up your heart sinks when its not the one you love who is online.
But when it is them you feel your heart beat faster and you feel butterflies.
Also when your in love, you just know, so sometimes when you have to ask yourself if you are in love, in can mean you are doubting the feeling meaning you are not truly in love.
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reader, mimisoph3 +, writes (30 May 2008):
 i dont know i never been in love but i think its magical only when you find the right person..if you cant sleep and talk to the person 24/7..if you call them or text them if something exciting happend.when the kiss is magical.when you look in his/her eyes and you dont see you but you actually see them and you feel like it can last forever
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2008): If you love someone, you'd do anything for them, you'd give your life up for them, you'd throw yourself under a car just so you could see their smile.
Whenever you see them, your heart beats so fast, your palms get sweaty, and nothing else is on your mind - just them. You get butterflies in your stomach with just the thought of kissing them - and when you do it's like there is nothing else in your life except that moment there with just the two of you. Being in love is the most amazing feeling on earth - but flips over to being the worst when it doesn't work out or isn't returned.
xx Hope xx
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reader, keith5 +, writes (29 May 2008):
 just imagine waking up knowing someone else is waking up thinking about you.
when two people are together looking into each others eyes being happy and having a good time.
sex is always good with someone you love but the kiss is definitely intense if its true love.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2008): You have constant urges, and you want to make love to them every minute of every day, in every single way. to a man that is what counts, and to a woman, well they will also like the pleasure it gives them
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