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What can I say that will get their attention and not just ignore or delete my message?

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Question - (29 May 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 29 May 2008)
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I joined this online dating site a few weeks ago, and i have messaged like 6 or 7 different girls saying something like, i would love to get to know you more" and they usually read my message and never respond (it says when they read your messages).

my question is, is there something good to say that would get someones attention and want to talk instead of just deleting my message?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2008):

well...alot of these dating sitrs are really african boiler rooms! they post pictures of attractive women, build a relationship with a 'mark', then say something like "honey my dad is in the hospital i jest need $500 please send to me baby..." i know it sucks. so are the chat rooms, full of phoney ads for ...you guessed it...online dating sites. alot of times they just dont check their mail, or are not active...i would research which sites actually have some level of discrimination, and verify if the people are real. good luck.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2008):

Dude this is not a dating chat line.Your on the wrong website. Love, Mrs.Stancil

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A female reader, :):):) United Kingdom +, writes (29 May 2008):

You havent really been messaging long enough to get worried yet!

It may just be that you havent found the right person out there.

Keep your messages short, even just 'Hi, how are you?' will break the ice.

Don't give up yet!

Good luck

xxx

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