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writes:I dated a man for a year and we began a relationship, but shortly after we broke up. I was devastated because I felt that we were doing well being together. We talk sometimes when we see each other. He tells me that I look nice and he still has feelings for me and misses me. I want to say something to him, but don't know what to say because I don't want to get my hopes up or be rejected, but I feel that he still care and just don't know what to say. I don't want to wait until it's to late before he get into another relationship. What do I say because I still have feelings for him also? Is he giving me a sign that we can reconcile our relationship that we had by always coming up to me to conversate? Please help!
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reader, Manya +, writes (29 May 2008):
You are right in desiring a more concrete sign. Definitely, don't give up! A reconciliation could be in process, he seems like he really likes you.
Why did you break up initially? Was he not ready, if so, perhaps he is now. He may not be quite ready to put his thoughts into words, though; why don't you ask him if he wants to
do something together, like a movie or something? He might
grab your hand in the show, sometimes actions speak louder than words. Of course, eventually, you have to talk, but!!
Best of luck,
Love,
Manya
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (29 May 2008):
 It seems he does feel you could reconcile. However, you need to know for sure. My suggestion is to ask him, in a very direct manner, what he means with his words. Something like "All right, you like me and you miss me. What do you really mean by that?"
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