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writes:Considering a one night stand tonight. I know you can't choose when and where these things happen, but tonight is a good opportunity. Anything I can do to make it happen? Thanks.p.s. It's been over a year since I last had sex, and I can't take it anymore. Desperate times call for desperate measures.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionBeen out tonight, and there we have it; One whole year now without sex, and tonight, I didn't even come close. The closest I came was getting to know a 28 year old who thought I was 23, which of course I'm not. After she found out I was 19, she ignored me.
I'm so pissed off. I want sex, but people don't want sex with me. It feels like I'm never going to have sex again, and I crave it so badly!!!!!
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reader, jumboshrimp  +, writes (29 May 2008):
the most important thing to have in your situation is self confidence. without it you wont get laid for sure.
a good way to build up your self confidence is to get rid of the fear of rejection.
go out tonight and use the "crash and burn" method where you ask as many girls as you can with the worst pickup lines you know. continue doing this until you dont care or until you get laid.
step 2 is to know what you want and go for it. with self confidence this will be alot easier. another word of advice is to use self suggestions. you have to hardwire some phrases (or mantras) and repeat them every day. a good phrase could be: i am selfconfident and i can get what i want. i have controll over my own life and i have nothing to worry about. say this enough times and believe it or not, your mind will actually follow. usually this would take around 2-3 months to get a good result.
if you look up Carlos Xuma and David DeAngelo you can find more information.
if this is too much hassle, try the badboy method. find a girl you like and give her "positive" insults and comments that are borderline teasing/bullying.
example: where did you get the dress? ive seen it on alot of other girls and they look nice.
remeber to say this with a smirk. if she really takes offence you can save it by saying "but i have to say you are one of the sexiest that ive seen wearing it".
what you want to do is to make the girl confused or stumbled. keep doing this and see what happens (whatever you do dont give up an keep a straight line).
this method will also take time to get confortable with and not everyone will fall for it.
oh... wear a condom :D
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reader, Fiona xxx +, writes (29 May 2008):
 Here's something for you, although I am female, I find this sort of thing entertaining LOL, and possibly true to life:
http://www.advancedmacking.com/onenight.html
By the way, please don't forget to use a condom.
from Fiona
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reader, Fiona xxx +, writes (29 May 2008):
Make sure you look your best etc.
I bet you know how to flirt LOL, or had opportunities in the past?
Just make sure you stand near, or edge towards single-looking girls, and make eye contact. You have to survey the place and select a target so to speak, and head that way.
I cannot explain it, but the vibe should be right so to speak.
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