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writes:thanks for reading this ill try to be really shortbasically me and my bf have been going out for a long time were both over the leagal and are both virgins lately we've been experimenting but i dont know how to pleasure him i dont even know how to 'talk dirty' or give a 'hand job' could you please help me? sorry for the awkward question itts just i dont know what else to do
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2008): aww thanks so much guys youve helped me so so much thanks so much ur advice was great and ill put it into action thank you xxx
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reader, B-NaneR  +, writes (29 May 2008):
 Its not an awkward question at all, everyone is worried about whether or not they are going to please there partner the first time they have sex and it is natural to be nervous, I was nervous the first time and so was my g/f. sex is kind of like trial and error, It takes a couple goes at it to really find out just what you and your partner really enjoys. Just listen to your partner and tell him what feels good and what doesnt when you do do it, and then just go with it, it all comes natural. I know i was a bit worried about how i was going to be my first time but i pulled it off just fine and i think you will do the same. Its your first time so make sure you are lubed up pretty good because it usually hurts the first time. Use protection you two! haha You are going to be just fine :)Take care, good luck and you can never be too safe.PS: If you are worried about all that hand job stuff, there is really nothing to worry about. It doesnt take much, just some lube, and up and down mothing. Dont squeeze hard be jentle and rub up and down at your partners prefered speed I guess you can say. and just get creative with it, he will tell you if he likes it or you can just tell by the exspretion :) good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2008): Hey hon!
Ok one piece of advice, I dont care how much guys love it, dont lick his fingers after hes fingered you... its gross especially if youre not that experiened. I mean, thats just my opinion but i cant stand the thought of having my own pussy juice in my mouth... dunno why some guys love it so much...
Secondly,
stroke his penis and rub it. Start with basic up and down rubbing then just try little different thigns and see what he likes! :-D
As for you, figure out jsut what your clit likes and have fun with it! Oral is always good ;-D
Have fun and be safe! Hugs
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2008): It should come natrually. Tell him to give him self a handjob and you put your hand on top of his and then continue. Talking dirty is all a mystery until you have got the hang of it. A way to turn him on is once he has 'fingered' you, like his fingers asif it was his penis, the love it!
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