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anonymous
writes:me and my partner of 9 months have only recently started to have sex. about 2 months but we use the same positions. He wants to try a new postioion does this mean he is bored?x Reply to this Question
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reader, Tremor  +, writes (30 May 2008):
 Of course he isn't bored! As has been said, if he was bored, he wouldn't want to do it at all.
The fact that he wants to experiment is a good thing - it shows he is comfortable with you, and he feels he can bring these kinds of topics up without freaking you out.
It's just a case of making a good thing even better - and where's the downside in that? Go for it, and enjoy yourself!
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reader, aunt_steph +, writes (29 May 2008):
Hi this is nothing to do with him being bored he will more then likely want to see whether both of you get a better feeling from different positions and they are great fun to try out trust me but if your really uncomfortable with anything just let him know and he should respect your wishes hope i helped.
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (29 May 2008):
 Doesn't mean he's bored, just means that he's having fun switching it up with you. Variety can be so much fun and make your sex life that much better! Experiment with some different moves and you may find something that is surprisingly amazing.
The "Cosmo Kama Sutra" is a sex position book that I really like. I know you can order it off Amazon.com or find it at practically any bookstore. It has 77 positions, tips and fun stuff... try it all!!
Enjoy, sweetness.
xx India
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reader, joooooo +, writes (29 May 2008):
well tbh i would be
not bored of my parter just of the same position
there are some great ones so just try em out
you'll like the variety as will he
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reader, StudentOfLife  +, writes (29 May 2008):
 Nope, life is about experience and through experience you learn.
Some position are better for the guys, some for girls. We each have our preference.
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reader, xJoanneyx +, writes (29 May 2008):
 buy a book to show you lots of different positions, i did and some are amazing i know ann summers sells the books you can read through it together and pick the ones you try, make sure its allways SAFE SEX! x
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (29 May 2008):
 Of course no. Keep having sex and you'll see we're telling you the truth.
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reader, Aunt Letty +, writes (29 May 2008):
He isn't bored with you. Things are still quite new when you've been having sex for just 2 months. It's good that he felt he could talk to you about trying new positions. Did you know that if you change your position during sex he will usually last longer? My advice...buy a book on Karma Sutra and read it together, you'll laugh at most of what's in there, but some of it will seem possible to you. Love each other,discover each other's bodies, and don't lose that communication you have. Enjoy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2008): No, it doesn't mean that he is bored at all. Keep trying new positions and different things. Keep it exciting. If you keep it exciting then it won't get boring. Each position feels different for both partners. Just make sure that what you do is safe and you both want to do it. My wife and I have been together for 29 years and still find new things to try sexually.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2008): No he isnt bored, but it is good to try a variety of positions. You may discover a one that you prefer, but it isnt a good idea to keep doing it that way or boredom does set in, and it is exciting trying them all out.
take care
xx
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reader, :):):) +, writes (29 May 2008):
No, hes not bored or else he wouldnt want to do it in any positions! He just wants to try new things, thats all. xxx
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