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writes:I met and started to date a guy 7 months ago. When we started dating I made it very clear that I did not want a boyfriend and was not interested in a relationship at that time, as I was just out of a bad relationship. I also was very clear with him that I was dating 2 others guys at that time. As time went on I stopped dating the other guys and continued to date this one. We practically live together, however I have continued to say that I am not ready to commit. For the past few months I have not wanted to date anyone else and did not think I would want to date anyone else. I was almost ready to commit, until I went away on vacation and realized that I still very much enjoyed being single. I don't know what to do. This guy is everything I've ever wanted. But I still don't want to commit and moreover I want to see other people. What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2008): It sounds like you want it all. If you really want this guy then you probably should commit, as otherwise he may not stick around for the long haul.
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reader, inneedofattention  +, writes (30 May 2008):
 you should sit down and have a long talk with your boy friend. you seem like a really lovely bloke whos a little confused. So sit down and explain to him exactly how your feeling. At the moment you must think about this other guy as well. how are you hurting him? how does he feel? so if you must end this relationship end it now before he really ends up hurting.
your friend, in need of a little attention.
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