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30-35,
anonymous
writes:hi..!!i am a 18 yr old girl..i strongly love a boy who is 11 rs older to me..we met through chat..never met b4 but seen each other's pics..deciding to meet within this year....we slowly and slowly had a close relationship and even promised to get married anyhow....but inspite evrything he kept on telling me that we can be only good friends and that's all...while these lines are seriously troubling me...finally a time came when he decided to move on and had told me that he is leaving me...when i asked him why did he do that..he told me coz he was bugged fighting with me regularly....and above all he thinks that nothing can happen between us..coz he believes that there would be an absolute mess if once his parents came to know about it..and the other reason that am 11 rs younger to him..but it is all way possible for me..am just ready to do nething for him...am deeply in love with him share my every bits of life with him...and it is becoming harsh to believe this fact that he left me..his mum and dad had already started searching a girl for him with whom he is getting married the coming year..i still talk to him on phone..coz i got addicted to him now...and it becomes dificult for me if i don't speak to him a single day even.whereas it is not the same on his side.he keeps on saying me that hes goin to get married sooner...and this really kills me....crying and sheding tears have now dried up my eyes....i really love him through all my heart.am not that bold like others to move on..i know i'l soon have a bad time if things remain unchanged..I corely want him to be mine.....please do something with it...please help me out..how can i get him back..please write to me...i need him.
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reader, rock-makk +, writes (30 May 2008):
well i think if you really love him then you would do wt is the best for him, and not jst think about urself.
if being away from you keeps him haapy then let him be.
you shouldnt be selfish.
bt if you think that he too loves you then you should sit down with him and talk about it properly.
there is allways a way.
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reader, StudentOfLife  +, writes (29 May 2008):
 What I'm going to say may be harsh. I think you should drop it.Life is about experience, through experience you learn. The only way you know if you really feel good with somebody is by meeting people.Chat is great, but you don't know what kind of person he is, if he snores, his personality, the way he acts around people ... around you.He chose to do what his parents told him to, A man belongs where he wants to go, and he wants to move away from you.Tears will eventualy kill the fire that burns within your heart, to make place to a new one.
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