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writes:I got this break up email from my bf. What do you think it means? I know obviously it means he wants to break up, but do you think I have a chance to patch it back together with him? I still love him and I know we've had some problems typical guy/girl commitment issues..."I am already stressed and your nagging about commitment and your friendship with people who say bad things about me makes me even pissed off. You want to get married, I don't NEED to get married. please feel free to find someone else. it is easier for both of us. I hope you can accept my decision and friendship. Let this cool off a little and eventually we can laugh together again." Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2008): I think that is pretty obvious
that is over
and eventually he wants to be friends, thats it.
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reader, Skeez  +, writes (29 May 2008):
 Hello hun.It sounds as though he isnt commiting enough to be with you, and is a little bit shallow to tell you this in an email. If he is not ready to get married, dont pressure him and just move on with your life. There will be someone else who will want to be with you for the rest of your life, but hes obviosuly not 'the one'.Its hard to get over someone you thought you could have a lifetime with, but the hurting will pass.Just get yourself some supportive friends and family, tell them how you feel. Speaking about whats bothering you willhelp even if you do it hundreds of times repeating the same thing. Or perhaps you could speak to him yourself, he needs to know that your feeling terrible and he needs to realise that sending an email isnt the way to go.Goodluck and hope things turn out for the best.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2008): Hey, what a sleaze that guy is! Who breaks up in a email? What a loser you are better off without him in that case, make sure in your next relationship you cut out the electronic communication what happened to talking face to face! Maybe you could find someone who wants the same things as you, learn from this and move on dont waste any more time on this guy. Good Luck x
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reader, Twirly +, writes (29 May 2008):
 Wow Sweetie, that's a harsh email for anyone to get, I don't see any hope there Im afraid.
If im honest Im hoping you will get over him and realise that you deserve someone much nicer, I don't care what has happened, you don't deserve to be spoken to like that!
Forget him and move on, and when you have, I wouldn't even be his friend if I were you, with friends like that who needs enemies!
Big hug x x x
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (29 May 2008):
 It sounds like he doesn't want to get married, and isn't prepared to work on the relationship because his expectations and yours do not coincide. The best you can hope for based on this email is a friendship after the hurt feelings have subsided.
If you truly feel the need to get married, then I don't think this is the man for you. Sorry to be blunt, but I don't see much hope here.
All the best.
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (29 May 2008):
 He doesn't want to date you again. I guess if you back off and be a friend to him and dont mention dating for a while, you might end up back together?
Sounds like you have scared him off. And are your mates just jealous or have they got valid reasons for slating him?
C xxxx
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