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*isfitschik66
writes: I've been having a problem lately with my sex life. both my boyfriend and i love making love to each other but the problem is that I'm always sore afterwards and i don't know why. when we first started having sex it didn't hurt as much but thats probably because i had more juices and was more excited (he is a pretty big guy down there if you know what i mean) but now it hurts even if we use lots of lube or i am wet or not he has a a little bit of a bend at the tip(to the right) but not even noticeable but for some reason thats the side thats ALWAYS sore and the opening is ALWAYS sore it feels like its been ripped or something what can i do to help this and what could it be???
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2008): How about a different position. Maybe if you try doggie style or you on top, you can control the sex and how deep and hard things go. Otherwise, I think I'm out of suggestions, so take a trip to your doctor and see if anything might be wrong.
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reader, misfitschik66 +, writes (25 June 2008):
misfitschik66 is verified as being by the original poster of the question too the first poster we don't use condoms because I'm sensative to latex
and for the going slow i have told him to go slow when we start and then after a while he goes faster because he can't get off if he doesn't maybe thats why?
we use lots of lube and we don't do it really hard because I'm prone to bladder infections really bad !!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2008): tell him to ease up and use some lube
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (25 June 2008):
 He's probably going at it a bit too hard mate.
Tell him to slow down until you are nice and naturally lubricated. If you are getting sore (especially if he is big) there may even be a slight tear inside.
If it continues to hurt go see your doctor.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2008): I thinking he's probably going too deep and hard. Ask him to ease up and make love more gently to you. He'll have to learn to control his thrusts better, and if you can't take him all without pain, then he'll just have to move back to decrease his length. Talk to him about it, tell him he leaves you in pain, so you have to adjust the way you make love.
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reader, interlud3  +, writes (25 June 2008):
Okay -
Are you using a condom?
Sometimes using it will make you skin down there a little chafed.
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