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Should I proceed with making this fantasy real?

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Question - (25 June 2008) 8 Answers - (Newest, 25 June 2008)
A male India age 41-50, *hriskundi writes:

i have the fantasy of seeing my wife getting fucked by another male, particular our neighbour, who is showing a sort of interest in her. She also likes him and she is ready to have sex with atleast Once.

By this thought only, I get excited and perform well on her.

Shall I proceed to have her sex with him?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2008):

NO

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A female reader, babewithbrains United Kingdom +, writes (25 June 2008):

babewithbrains agony auntChildren use this site: Please improve your language.

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A male reader, LazyGuy Netherlands +, writes (25 June 2008):

LazyGuy agony auntThere are a lot of questions here about guys who have trouble with their partners sexual past and you want to add to hers?

This is a fantasy and in fantasy we don't have to think about consequences.

What if she gets with this neighbor and she has a pleasant surprise in that not only is he much larger you but simpler much better then you. Yes you find out that with your neighbor who is a better man, better build and your wife has her first real orgasm of her entire life because she was just faking it before.

What then? I bet that doesn't happen in your fantasy? I bet in your fantasy she still says that you are the best she has ever had.

Don't make fantasy reality unless you are ready to fully deal with it. Are you REALLY ready to see your wife enjoy sex with another man? And if she enjoys do you really think she will leave it at just once?

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A female reader, bebe girlie Kuwait +, writes (25 June 2008):

I dont know whats wrong with the world?! Hell she is your wife and not your GF...! You should be jealous for her and if you think she should be sleeping around with other people than I dont think you even love her or shouldve married her! Love is about being jealous and keeping the person you love to yourself! Dont create a sin you will not be capable of handling!

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (25 June 2008):

eyeswideopen agony auntJust keep "performing well on her" and leave it at that.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2008):

OK, first you want her to show off her bare boobs to the entire neighborhood.

http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-like-my-wife-to-be-an-exhibitionist.html

Now you want her to screw other guys, starting with the next door neighbor. Neither of these is a good idea. If you want to show her off and she agrees, then just dress her up in some really sexy clothes and take her shopping all over town and watch other guys drool over what they can't have.

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A female reader, Isabella1974 Ireland +, writes (25 June 2008):

Isabella1974 agony aunti think you should just leave it to fantasy, as you mentioned you already get excited by the though of it and all is well.

I think you will create all sorts of problems if your wife proceeds to have sex with him.

Take care

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A female reader, superbunny United Kingdom +, writes (25 June 2008):

superbunny agony auntI don't think you realise just how much of a strain this may put on your relationship. Some things like this are best left as a fantasy. Also, things seem to be better in your imagination than they do in real life!!

You must understand that both you + your wife are 100% happy with this. If you do consent to her doing this, then you must not show any jealousy or contempt to either her or your neighbour because you allowed it happen.

I hope this helps. x

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