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writes:Ive had this friend since we were 6 years old, we are now both 19 years old and ever since we were little kids shes tried to destroy any other friendships ive had with other people. And she still does this. When we were 6 she told another girl who I was close with that I hated her (which i didnt!!!) and she told me that the other girl hated me (which she did not). So we both stoped talking to each other, but our mums both thenchatted and discovered my friends lie she told to destroy our frinedship.To this very day she does things like that and its left me with like zero close friends apart from her. I fear even talking to other girls because if she finds out shell treat me really badly. Shes also jealous of me having any bf's. I get alot of guys approaching me and shes tried ruining every one of those relationships with them. When I first introduced my last bf to her, she was completely rude! She started yelling at me and him because we were late, like completely going off at us! She didnt apologise or anything. A few days later my bf broke up with me saying that it would never work because my best friend didnt approve of us.I really liked that guy, and I have so much anger towards my friend for doing what she did. Because of all of whats happened, I have gotten to the point where I am fed up and just about to lose it with her. So I guess my question is, who do I stop my freind from doing all this? Is it possible to save our friendship or should I just let go?
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reader, rcn  +, writes (25 June 2008):
 It sounds to me as your friend has some real psychological problems. I'd recommend she gets treatment for this. It's sounds like she's a bit controlling, has real self image issues, abandonment issues, and feels threatened by other people.
It is time for you to take control of your life. She has to accept, you can date, you can be friends with others, and that it's okay. It's also okay to tell her to back off and not treat you or your friends that way.
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