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writes:Hi There,I have a bit of boyfriend bother... Here's the story;I know this boy at my fencing club, he is in Yr 9 and I'm in yr7. I look old for my age, he is quite normal. So, last week he asked me out to the cinema, but he didn't show up, or I missed him or something... yesterday at fencing, he said sorry etc. but nothing more and I'm really confused because I don't know if he still wants to go out with him, and i don't really like him that much but i said yes because i like him enough but I really fancy someone else a lot more... I don't know what to do, because i want to go out with someone else but I don't know if we're together or not!Whew, that was a loooong paragraph...Thanks for reading, any advice is always welcome, and by the way, that was my first ever date with anyone. Cheers,Jellyxxx Reply to this Question
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reader, babewithbrains +, writes (26 June 2008):
babewithbrains is verified as being by the original poster of the question :) I might just do that, Tisha. :)
Jelly
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (25 June 2008):
 Sorry your first date turned out to be a no-show. So technically, you can still say that you're waiting for your first date. Don't give him that honor.
Anyway, I think that because he has not actually explained things in any way, and because he stood you up, you are not really together in any sense of the word.
So go for the one you fancy. And don't let Mr. No-Show Fencing Boy occupy one more minute of worrying time. It's really not worth it, after all.
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reader, LilzDon'tKnow +, writes (25 June 2008):
 Um first off, your not together
just because you date someone doesn't mean you are together just means you went on a date. your together when he asks you and you say yes to " will you be my girlfriend" but if you like the other guy you should deffinetally go for it.
~Hope This Helps~
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reader, Phsyciatrist-to-be +, writes (25 June 2008):
 (Apologies for putting it bluntly) If you dont think you like him enough any more and you like someone else better, it's a good idea to end the relationship before something bad happens. I suggest you talk to your bf and find out where he thinks you are in your relationship, and take it from there
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (25 June 2008):
 Jelly, if he didn't show up, it says all you need to know...fencing boy just wasn't mean't to be. Don't worry, there are plenty more fencers in the sea.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2008): No, you're not together. You just dated, but you're not in a relationship. Plus, he seems uninterested about you, even if he asked you out, he stood you out. Ask the other guy out on a date, and this guy comes and tells you why you're with him, tell him you thought you were not in a relationship and end it there.
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