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female
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51-59,
anonymous
writes:I met this guy on the internet and was not immediately attracted to him, but he was persistant and I agreed to meet him. We got on well and since I was previously married for many years and so was he we had mutual interest. We started a relationship and he seems to have many unresolved issues from his life, but is a very sweet and gentle person. We have discussed everything very openly about how we are and it is more head love then heart love. But he has sexual issues and rarely touches me or wants to make love. When we talk about it - which is not often he is very prude, he says that it will come right in time. Which does not seem to be happening. Do you think that he is not that into me? I have asked and he says he will see someone but has not, does not want to talk about it and gets irratated if I bring it up, he says he has a problem with sex, but will tell you he has had many other woman in his life and still talks of the previous relationship as if he is just coming out of it but they have been apart for over a year. Prior to that she cheated on him and they were not living together as man and wife for three years. In this time he did not see anyone and did not have any relations at all. This is know to be true. Has he lost the ability to want sex or is it me. I am very attractive and get a lot of male attention and I try daily to enhance my looks and body to be the best it can be. Please help me I am so frustrated. I do everything for him and see that he is loved and the issues he has had in the past are dealt with kindly and with love. His parents and friends adore me and tell him - he is very proud to introduce me around - especially as I have a good job and am well educated. This he seems to love. I have grown attached to him and feel I would like to know if it is worth pursuing this relationship or should I get out before it is too late and I get horribly hurt again.
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reader, iceprincess422  +, writes (26 June 2008):
keep it simple.say i think i like u or can we be more than friends.
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