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writes:Hi,I have a little problem... I just kissed my best friend, who is a girl... and I'm really confused because i thought i liked boys but i'm not sure, and i know no one else saw, but i love my best friend like a sister but i don't know what to do now becuase i no kids in my class are very anti lesbiens and being gay is a popular insult at the mo... i'm just really worried now...xxo, btw i'm 12 and my best friends 11.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI guess I knida liked it... but I don't think I'd do it again, unless she kissed me first.
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reader, Nibblet  +, writes (25 June 2008):
 Your still young and you dont have to pick a label. Kissing a girl doesnt make you a lesbian or even bi, your body is going through some changes and so are your hormones, so theres no worry. its perfectly natural to have feelings for the same sex, so dont worry about what other people might say, it natural.hope this helps, message me if you want to talk.Good Luck!!!
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reader, Phsyciatrist-to-be +, writes (25 June 2008):
 Having feelings for members of the same sex is NOT against human nature: you cant choose your sexual preferances without forcing yourself one way or the other, and that would mean denying who you really are, and that's not good for you.
You're young. That's the first thing to remember. Your body is still developing, and your hormones are still sorting themselves out. Just because you have feelings for another girl now doesnt make you lesbian: as you grow up you will feel all kinds of weird feelings. It's why teenagers can be all smiles and giggles one minute, then quiet and sulky the next.
It sounds like "bebe girlie" has strong religious beliefs on this subject (forgive me if I'm wrong). I am Christian, and I know that the bible says homosexuality is wrong. But I have nothing against gay men, or lesbians. Like I said above: you cant choose your sexal preferances. Dont become certain about anything yet: things could change completely. My advice for now would be to just let nature take its course and dont start up any relationships until your more certain of how you feel.
Hope I helped.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2008): Not much information is given here.Where did you kiss her? Did you like the kiss? What were your feelings while you were kissing her? Do you find yourself romantically attracted to your friend?It might have just been a friendly kiss and that's it. I think the people in your school have influenced some of their homophobic thoughts on you. Don't panic, being gay is NOT bad at all. If you love a person, the world shouldn't matter. Only the two of you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2008): dont worry dear. many kids do have thoughts or incidents like this when their young... many times it means nothing.
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reader, bebe girlie  +, writes (25 June 2008):
Every once in a while people get confused about sex.. and as young as you are and the media going on these days.. You are bound to try anything that comes in your way... Dont be a LESBIAN ...its a big sin and it will lead you to disgrace ., It is not normal and against human nature to be in love with the same sex.. so dont let your mind trick you into going to that road.
.. Stay clean , live a peaceful life and sooner or later you will meet the BOY who you really like..You are young and have other more important stuff to think about other than sex and making out and love! Enjoy your life and age at the moment.
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