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writes:Hey all, I'm seeing this girl right now and I really like her but lately it seems like she doesnt have time for me, before we used to talk all the time, whenever we werent working, now we only talk if I make first contact and she still sometimes doesnt talk. shes acting differently and I dont know what to do. Ive told her that it seems like shes not interested anymore but she assures me she is and shes just busy. she says her work is top priority now cuz she wants to save money yet after work all the time shes going out with friends for dinner and driving around everywhere, i havent seen her in 2 weeks and she got a day off but she says shes going to try and work, so it seems like shes doesnt even want to see me even tho i miss her like crazy. should I just sit back and wait for her to find time for me or should i just move on? I like her alot but I also want her to want to hang with me and nto leave me sitting out in the cold waiting. Im thinking about just not talking to her for awhile and seeing if she talks to me, but im up for any suggestions :) thanx in advance
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2008): SUPPORT HER. I had this happen with my ex and I worked my ASS off to get ahead and could not give him the time/attention he needed. Don't pressure her, just let her do her thing and she will come back to you. The more pressure you put on her, the more she will back away. Let her work, go out with friends, have fun....she needs that because she is being put under so much pressure/stress at work that this is her way of breaking loose. Don't let her walk all over you but give her some space. By you doing that, she will respect and admire you more than you know.
I wish my man did this but he decided to cheat and start dating other people behind my back. How sad and pathetic. Don't be that person. You sound like a great guy and I think your patience will set the bar for a great relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2008): im in the same position ,but i have decided to walk away as i can do better than what he`s offering
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