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51-59,
anonymous
writes:A friend of mine called sometime ago thinking something was wrong in his marriage, thinking I could heip since I spent time with his wife. I've known them for years, so I tried helping. then he went home early on night to spend time with her, and found her with his close friend, I still tried helping my friends trying my best to stay nutral. three months after the affair, he and I got together in a way we never would have expected. shortly after finding out about us from me, she suddenly wanted to fix things in her marriage, being the man that he is so did he. After spending one last weekend with him we went our seperate ways, sortof, some weeks later I got a call from him, she never really came home. so we tried again after some more interferance from the wife (still to this day), to failure to appears in divorce court by him and her, we are still together. I know the man loves me and there is no question I love him, but he is still not divorced, there are children involved, but after a couple years, I wonder if I am an Idiot. We do not live together, because I wont unless he is divorced, I had no problem getting my divorce, when I new it was over. so my questions what sould I do and am I an idiot???
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2008): thank you for your input, these are things I know this is my problem. It is nice to here from someone not involved, with the same thought on it as me. Thank you again for your time to answer my question.
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reader, rcn +, writes (25 June 2008):
 I'd back off until he sorts things out. It seems as both of them are procrastinating the divorce. You have to understand as well, being with you while he's married is still considered adultery in the eyes of the law. All of which can be used in divorce court.
All of which ends up affecting the children.
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