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Is sex in a commitment better than one night stands?

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Question - (25 June 2008) 12 Answers - (Newest, 26 June 2008)
A male United States age 36-40, *ble writes:

hi i want to no if being in a committed relationship make sex more pleasurable to women than casual sex

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2008):

It all depends on what the woman or man wants out of the sex.

Do they want hours upon hours of no-strings orgasms? Go one night stands... but those awkwards mornings become tiresome eventually.

Or do they want somewhat less, but far more charged emotionally and occasionally more intense sexual feelings and experiences? Then go with a relationship.

Its not that hard a choice really.

Flynn 24

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2008):

My girlfriend once told me she'd really love to screw another guy. She was very, very hot and horny, wanting constant sex, almost more than I could give her, so I agreed to let her have a gigolo.

Well, she tried once for an hour, said it was really great and wanted a second time (to my disappointment), and after the second time (half a night) she wanted a third (four hours). This was all in the space of two days. He screwed her for hours at a time.

After the third time she didn't want to go again. It was nice with the gigolo, sure, he was good-looking, had stamina, and knew how to make love. But she said she "couldn't get the right feeling". By contrast, when we made love it was just so much more turned on, she was so much wetter, she had so many more orgasms, she just knew it was me she wanted to make love to, not him. So no more gigolos, another fantasy out of the road.

I can say with confidence, yes, women prefer sex in a committed relationship.

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico +, writes (26 June 2008):

Danielepew agony auntBeing in a committed relationship also makes sex more pleasurable for men.

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A female reader, birdynumnums Canada +, writes (26 June 2008):

birdynumnums agony auntA woman has to really feel trust in her partner in order to "let herself go" - so Yes - it's definitely better in a committed relationship, especially a good marriage.

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A male reader, Passthrough United States +, writes (26 June 2008):

Passthrough agony auntSometimes, it seems like you just want to f*** a hot guy/girl, but in reality, it's always shallow and empty.

Committed sex is more fun!!!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2008):

Without a shadow of a doubt it is better in a committed relationship in my opinion.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2008):

Yes, love and commitment beats a quick sex job each and everytime.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2008):

It depends. I was in a "committed" relationship once and the sex was AWFUL.

But FOR SURE, having sex with someone you are CRAZY about and IN LOVE with (commitment or no commitment) is a million times better than having sex with someone you don't care about. And I am sure most guy's will agree with that.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (25 June 2008):

eyeswideopen agony auntHell yes! Making love weeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee! Sex, heck that's what my dog's looking for when he jumps the fence.

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A female reader, Midge United Kingdom +, writes (25 June 2008):

Midge agony auntI have to admit, being in love and making love to your partner is so much more pleasureable than having sex with some guy that you just met. All I would be thinking about is where has his bits been before me, how clean is the guy and what viruses does he have?

I love my boyfriend and find making love to him, more exciting and much more pleasurable if you can feel that he loves you too!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2008):

Well, I won't give you a long answer. I'm a man, but from what I've heard, the answer is that it is much better in a committed relationship.

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A female reader, synnamon United States +, writes (25 June 2008):

yes being in a committed relationship is more pleasureable i think to me. now to other people idk

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