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writes:Hello aunts. Its a long story so hold tight. Well first things first. I split up from my Ex of 3 years in August. Well he split up with me. Ever since then we were seeing eachother day and i had hope for us getting back together. That was untill he slept with my best friend last week. He has changed so much and all he cares about now is how many girls he can get into bed, this is while he says to me 'i still love you'. He denies to me that he has slept with anyone, but he obviously has, i havnt slept with anyone else yet i still catch chlamydia?! Its got to the point now, ive had enough and i have to think about my self-respect and start to enjoy life again. Its hard but i cant carry on like this. Of course i still care about him, but i think i love the person he was, and not the person he is. Anyway, i went into town on Saturday and i met this guy. Hes my sisters boyfriends friend. Ive met him loads of times before, but he said to me i need to realise whats its like to be treated as a proper lady. So im going to his tonight to watch a film and just chill out. Its good becuase hes 25 and im 21, so he will be a lot more maturer to my ex. Im excited but Im really nervous and need some advice. I have only been on one other date and that was my ex! Please help :) Thanks ppl. love me. xxx
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reader, Isabella1974  +, writes (26 June 2008):
 Hi Wisha,
O i am so delighted for you. Glad it went so well for you.
Take care
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reader, Wisha +, writes (26 June 2008):
Wisha is verified as being by the original poster of the question Hiya people. So i went last night and........i really enjoyed myself! :) as soon as i got there i was fine and he made me feel like i wasnt nervous (if that makes sense) and we had a cheeky kiss when i left! xxx
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reader, Isabella1974 +, writes (25 June 2008):
Hi there,
you are right, you have reach the point where you realised that you deserve better that the way your ex was treating you, well good for you. You are and did the correct think leaving him. Leave your ex in the past, you owe it to yourself.
This new guy sounds nice, the fact that you know him and he says that you need to realise that you need to be treated like a proper lady, then if he is the one to treat you like a lady and have respect for you then i dont think you have anything to worry about, just make sure he does treat you like a lady.
Guys are guys at the end of the day and will try it on, you are going to his place to watch a movie, just enjoy the movie, is it that you are nervous about going to his place...take things very, very slowly. My one concern i have is, if this is your first date, why is he bringing you to his place, why is he not taking you out instead??? Sorry its just me, i would prefer a guy to take me out on our first day.
If you prefer and feel more comfortable, suggest that you both go out and see a film instead. If he cares for you he wont mind changing and will be happy to do so. ONLY do what you feel comfortable to do.
I hope this helps you
Good luck tonight and let me know how you get on xx
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (25 June 2008):
 Make sure you wear a comfortable outfit and try to relax. First dates can be daunting but once the first one is out of the way the rest are very enjoyable. You'll be just fine and let us know how it went.
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