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writes:okay well I've been talking to this guy since March we talked everyday over the phone.but lately the conversations were starting to get boring after an hour and before we used to talk all night..well he hasn't called me or anything for the past 2 days...I tried calling him and texting him but he didn't respond to anything..Well a couple of minutes ago I called him and he didn't answer so I left him a voice mail saying "ok I get it now you don't want to talk to me anymore so I won't call you or text you anymore so bye"...I left that as a voice mail....Did I do the right thing??Should I try calling him again or what?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2008): I agree with the other postings; give this guy some space; don't contact him again; give him sometime; if you have not heard from him in about a week;consider sending a text message; asking how he is doing;
I think are missing his calls and your conversations; as it became a routine; but find something else to do; keep your mind occupied; then it will be easier not to think about him and less tempting to contact him;
Good Luck!
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reader, confused999  +, writes (25 June 2008):
text him in 2 days
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (25 June 2008):
 Depends, how desperate do you want him to think you are?
Sometimes you just got to take a step back and accept the other party now has to make a move or things are over.
Take a deep breath and accept that you tried everything you could, the ball is now in his court and if he doesn't pick it up, then just move on.
Keep trying and you just make a fool out of yourself. Love does that to us all but enough is enough.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2008): I would say, leave it be for now. If you keep trying to text him and call him and you continue to not get a hold of him, it will only make you more frustrated and you might end up leaving a few nastier messages that you may regret later. Plus, as far as I read in your post, you don't seem to know why he isn't calling you or messaging you. Maybe he broke his phone and needs to get a new one, maybe there was a family emergency, or maybe he just doesn't want to talk to you anymore. The point is, you have no idea what the reason is. And if it's anything other than he simply does not want to talk to you anymore, he will get back to you, and the best you can do is just be patient. Otherwise, you'll never hear from him and you'll be better off having not left him ten thousand angry messages that make you look insane. I, personally, would just leave one last message telling him the positive way you feel about him romantically (you like him a lot, you're crazy about him, you love him, etc) and then just say you hope to hear back from him. If you've left him a ton of mean messages, he may be dreading getting back in touch with you. Anyways, I hope my answer has been of some help to you. I know these things can be quite confusing and tough. Best of luck to you!
-RJGirl
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